kissing probs?

Question

my husband has problems kissing me, once we start he tends to loose concentration and leaves his lips hanging. He discontinues the kiss. He also dosnt like to foreplay prior to sex, he is more interested it getting right to point. I am a woman who is fairly aroused without any kind of foreplay..i dont want it to look like he's inexperienced and i truly love him but this is driving me nuts. Some advise please!

Answer 1

I think that you and your husband need to talk about what is going on. If he does not know what he is doing there is not a way to help him. Some guys do not know that a woman like foreplay. You may need to talk to hi m about that as well. It lengthens the sexual experience drawing the couple together. Try starting the sexual session (if you will) by playing with him to start out. If that does not work then move on to other things. Read books! Some good title are as follows;
The Joy of Sex by Comfort, Alex ;
Restoring the Pleasure by Penner, Clifford L.
Bedroom Games
Stripteases, Seductions, and Other Surprises to Keep Your Partner Coming Back for More
Edition 1 by Taylor, Mary
That is what helped my wife and me. We also took local classes and they were also helpful. But I think the best thing that you could do is to sit him down and talk to him about this. This is something that might tear you two apart instead of bringing you together.

Answer 2

Kissing problems. Okay lets start from scratch.
Get a lemon and cut it up in slices. Then get your husband and feed him a lemon to suck on and he feeds you a lemon to suck on and then just kiss with no tongues.

Now the next thing you do is get salt and put it on his tongue and he does the same for you and swirl your tongue around and taste the salt and then both of you this time pick up a lemon and suck on it, but no kissing.

Now for the final phase...you pick up a1/2 spoon of pure cane sugar and put it in his mouth. and he will do the same for you and swirl this sugar all in your mouth and swallow it.
Then kiss gently and then share your tongue.
What will happen is this.......You both have just learned to accept each others ways from being sour, salty and sweet and feeding one another gives you both the sense of sharing what is good and bad. In life we can get caught up in many factors of inhibitions and loss of control or even loss of of desire, but the lemons and Salt and Sugar is a way of accepting , what is bad and loving what is good.
Good Luck

Answer 3

there is many variety of kisses. If a delightful kiss, merely lips to lips and that is it. yet in case you'r kissing with you lover, that's diverse. you'll come across each and every area in his mouth with you tongue. His tongue, his each and every nook of his mouth. he will truly do a similar. The longer it very last the texture is more beneficial positive. strong success!!

Answer 4

You need to take control of the situation and tease him abit and he will follow your lead. It takes some practice which isn't a bad thing

Answer 5

why don't you take up where he leaves you...... kiss him back.. show him the pleasures of foreplay... surprise him and see him change for the better.

Answer 6

you need to talk to him about it ,he might think that's what u want. coming from a man ,sometimes we forget about you and we just think about us.my wife will kiss after she gets into it ,but does NOT like me in her face before that.good luck!!

Answer 7

"Honey, we have to talk...." tell him what you like, unless his ADD kicks in, in which case tie him up and enjoy all the foreplay you want.

Answer 8

sounds like you need to sit down and have a talk with him if you don't then it could harm your marriage and if you love him i am sure you don't want that to happen

Answer 9

Tell him how you fell about it i mean you al are married you should be able to talk to him

Answer 10

talk to him, but u must be sure first that there is nothing wrong with u,