me and my ex are still very close,he says that we're gonna get bac 2gether but he sleeps around and shyt,his gf is now pregnant,do u think i should leave him and find sumthin better or wait til he breaks up with her,
2006-09-10 03:35:44 · 18 answers · asked by yana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hi gal,
I think with your question and problems, i guess you are definitely a young school girl that below 20.
Is such a straight forward action that you should take long long time ago, leave your ex playboy bf immediately. With a hopeless hope that he told you, you guys will not be together in future. If you guys do be together in future, can you allow him to be flirt around like what he is doing right now.
You are just giving yourself an excuse for not going to leave him, with his character, you will not feel secure for the rest of your life.
What so good about him? What so special about him? Life is not just married, giving birth to a baby, or stay at home and wait for him to come back. There are a lot of more meaningful thing waiting for you to find out.
I am sure there are more than enough good man waiting for you, your ex is considered the worst. I even think that he might be a con man, going around to cheat gal like you, so decent and simple minded.
Wake up, is time for you to move on, moving on doesnt mean that you have to go for another new bf, just focus somewhere that will make a better future for you.
Say good bye to your ex, and you donot need to explain too much thing to him. He already has a present gf which is pregnant right now. If you wait for him to come back, that means you and your ex are killing another gal or a baby.
Hope that this will help. Sorry for being so straight forward.
2006-09-10 03:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by Wake up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as it may hurt, leave him. If he really cared about you he wouldn't be out sleeping with other people. He would be with you trying to work out the problems, why you two broke up in the first place. Now he has a baby on the way, with his other girlfriend. Another girlfriend is always a good sign to move on. What makes you think he is going to break up with her? They may not actually stay together, but he is always going to have her in his life...she is his baby's momma. Move on. Find someone worth your time.
2006-09-10 03:42:54 · answer #2 · answered by fin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PLease let him go.....He is toxic to your health. If you think of yourself as something then you should get on and leave him behind. This man only wants you as backup....Guys always say that to the good girls. The ones they want to come back to when they are finishing sowing the fruits of their loins.....Basically he wants to know you are always in his corner so that when shi* turn down the wrong road he always has loving ole' you to lean on and maybe make a midnight call too....HOney you are worth more than that...He is a whore...whores come in all shapes and sizes and they are are men and women and if he is sleeping around..baby he is CONTAGIOUS and the love bug won't be the only thing you'll catch. Let him go and find someone who has time for you...and only you.
Good Luck
And God Bless
2006-09-10 03:44:28 · answer #3 · answered by vanity_luvs_u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave that boy and find something better. If he's **** and sleeping around, you never know what kind of STDs he's got now.
Don't go back to a guy who've you been with and who will soon be having a baby. That's just asking for a whole lotta trouble.
2006-09-10 03:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by slequestrian 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be kidding!!! Don't even think twice about leaving. However, I have the feeling if you are even asking this question, you will go back to him if and when he breaks up. You probably need to work on your self-esteem because you think you are not worthy of better. Work on yourself until you are very confident and then look for another boyfriend and do not go back to him.
2006-09-10 04:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by bernadette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god are you serious ... would you want a guy who cheats on his pregnant gf??? that is soooo disrespectful!! How would you like it if the roles were reversed??? No guy is worth it!! Yes leave him alone and tell him to grow up, he now has a baby to worry about instead of being a ho ... you need to find some self esteem and find someone better
2006-09-10 03:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by emnari 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
did not i supply an answer to this one earlier lol. tell him you trully take care of him. quite do not sound determined and say you desire him and how he potential the international to you in view that he quite is a creep. regrettably to assert is that it seems to me he's clearly attempting to move on yet you wont enable him, and seeing you shifting on is making him jealous. If he needs to move on so do you should. attempting to anticipate him is in worry-free words going to reason more beneficial heartbreak for you. He desires to no be a hypocrite. per chance he's with the different lady to probable make you jealous. merely enable time pass through.
2016-10-15 23:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like playing second fiddle?Enjoy being used?Want to become pregnant by a man who treats you like trash?Have him sleep around on you? Do what you think is best for you,but be careful what you ask for,you might get it.
2006-09-10 03:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy can go and sleep around like that he obviously doesn't care about you. Move on and find someone who deserve's you cause he doesn't!!!!
2006-09-10 03:44:47 · answer #9 · answered by rn.student 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sit there and wait. What else better do you have to do? May be 20-50 years down the road, but he will come back. I swear, he told me so..
2006-09-10 03:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋