just come home from doing six months in prison and things aren't going right with my husband and me since i have been home i have tried everything to make things right but it don't seem to be working at all i need advise to help my marrige because i see it going down hill everyday and i really love my husband to death
2006-09-10 03:18:44 · 11 answers · asked by regina h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
regardless of the fact that you have been in jail - you & your husband have been parted for 6 months with limited contact & it is going to take sometime for you both to re-adjust to living together again
it is very important that you both talk honestly about your feelings & maybe consider seeing a counsellor either on your own or preferrably with your husband
GOOD LUCK
2006-09-10 03:26:32 · answer #1 · answered by fairypelican 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We really can't offer advice unless we have a little more infio. Were you in prison because you tried to kill hubby? Because you got caught selling drugs? Ate your baby? Sold secrets to the Russians? A reasonable person could wonder why, if your marriage is sooooo important to you, you'd do something that landed you in prison. Depending on what you did, you may just be crying over what was inevitable, given your own actions.
2006-09-10 04:16:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur marriage is over
if u tried everything including comunication and it failed that means u and ur husband are over move on with your life
your husbands has moved on so u need to leave him
plus u have been in prison for 6 months things do happen so most likely he found someone
2006-09-10 09:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and him need to sit down and have a very long serious talk. He's been without you for 6 months and changes do happen. Find out what's been going on while you were away. You need to find out what he thinks, what he wants, what his plans are.
2006-09-10 03:41:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahh, maybe he's disappointed in you for what you did.
He might feel a little betrayed. What did you do???
Anyways, he's love and respect for yu may be slipping away.
Do something to make this right! save ur marriage.
Good luck with this
2006-09-10 03:21:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, you just got out of jail, you don't want to be loving your husband to "death." Second of all, you are probably all butched out now, and he doesn't like it.
2006-09-10 03:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
communications is the key to everything. If you approach your husband with honesty and explain how you are feeling, he should be able to be open and honest with you.
2006-09-10 03:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by waderssd40 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking with him one on one with no interruptions. Don't be afraid to ask him what he feels. Or another good thing that helped us is marriage counseling. good luck
2006-09-10 03:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by tallgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What isn't working? What is the source of the discord
2006-09-10 03:21:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he proably feels guilty,you cant tell me he didnt fuc* someone while you were locked up.maybe he only did it once and now he has troubles facing you..
2006-09-10 03:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋