cuz there is guy he's 19 and i'm well younger than him like 4 years its bout 2 bout be like 3 but anywayz there is this guy and he's really sweet and we like eachother alot and the good thing about it iz that me and him he never tried 2 touch me in the wrong way or hit or n e thing like that. and me and him be havin this thing where me and him will say the same thing or do the same thing it happens everytime we see eachother like 3 times. but the bad thing about it is that my mom won't let us be 2gether...so is this love???
2006-09-10 03:17:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
crush maybe?
2006-09-10 03:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by westgaliberty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are young, and you find someone that is so compatiable in the way you are describing, you want to assume it's love. Love takes on many forms, even friendship. You can have a friend and be able to say the same things at the same time too. In fact, I had a friend that she and I did this a lot, and we would tap each other on the shoulder and say, "You owe me a coke!" It was a running joke with us.
Try to give your parent some trust and respect. She is only watching out for your best interest because, she has true parental love for you. She carried you in her tummy while pregnant and then her arms as an infant. She has taken care of you the best way she could from birth, and is still trying to protect you from hurt or harm. We can sometimes hurt ourselves thinking we know more than our parents.
So, give yourself and your mom a break. Focus on your future, get an education and be ready to meet other people and discover your potential. Life is short, yet prepare to face it the best you can. When you get older, you will be happy you took care of yourself now.
2006-09-10 10:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Chew on this! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not believe in love at first sight. I do believe in lust at first sight though. Love is a learned emotion just like hate. I'm not inclined to think that you are in love or lust(although it does happen). You sound like a sweet girl and he's probably a decent guy. The only thing that you have working against you is that neither of you have had time to experience much of life(not your fault), and time will take care of that. Don't rush things. I have found over tine and as the result of making mistakes that a relationship wort having; is worth taking your time to enjoy the little things that happens as it grows. What I would say the connection you have is an attraction. Get with your mom and ask what she sees in the boy from her point of view. I know she's seen a bit more and made a few mistakes that she has had to learn from. The thing about mistakes, if we learn from them that is good, but we still have to pay for them. She probably thinks that he is just after sex, most boys his age would sell their family for sex.
2006-09-10 10:39:12 · answer #3 · answered by lifeisgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes just make him feel comfortable take these tips
1.Attract the type of guy. You’re looking for by emphasizing your best features and downplaying undesirable traits. Make the most of what you have, both physically and mentally.
2. Learn how to make him feel good about his by taking an interest in his life.
3.Love can surface in unexpected places and at unexpected times. Keep your eyes open for the right boy for you. inile
4.First start by talking to them. Then try to sit in a place near them. Then at least make him laugh once in a while.
5.After a few weeks he well start talking to you and if your the girl he comes up to get advice or tell you someone she has a crush on (you probably) and then if you are tired of waiting tell him you have a crush on him.
I know a girl did this to me before.
2006-09-10 10:32:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only experienced what I thought might be love at first sight once.I think there is sooo much more to "love" than just a look or a glance. Your situation is very different though with your age right now. When I was your age we called it puppy love....but now that sounds a little dated. I guess what it means is that at your age everything is so new and exciting and your going through so many changes that it would almost be impossible to find "Love at first sight" Take your time...okay :)
2006-09-10 10:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Buddy E 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there is no such thing as love at first sight. He is an adult, and you are not. He should not be trying to date you at all, because nothing would ever come of it. He's risking jail and your well-being. The reason why he knows what you are going to say is that you are a fifteen year old girl. Sorry to say, but it's not that hard to predict what you're thinking about. Your mother is right to not let you date him. It will bring nothing but trouble.
2006-09-10 10:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called puppy love and he is to old for you and has different perspectives on things than you do. Your still young and even though you might think a little more mature for your age which is natural in women I would go to far with it till you get a little older. But it isn't love in reality, maybe a fantasy and that is it. Don't let it control you
2006-09-10 10:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe Physical attraction perhaps infactuation as well. Your young and love is something that takes time to grow besides you have your whole life in front on you so why tie it down now when you haven't had the opportunity to venture out on your own and really see life as it is and establish your own mark and enforce it.
2006-09-10 10:21:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is love. This is love at first sight infact. But parents know what is best. Have you tried explaining to your mom that you are in love?? Have you told her that even though you are only 15, you are in love?? If that still doesnt work, either wait till you move out of the house ((in 3 years)) or say to your mom, "I'm in love. You can't prevent true love. If you won't let me see him, I'm moving out." Then find an apartment and move out of your house. You arent trying to scare your mom, you are trying to prove to her that you are old enough to handle yourself. Dont move in with this guy, but call your mom everyday to tell her that you are ok. Explain to her that you and your boyfriend will not have sex. Eventually she will crack and let you date him.
2006-09-10 10:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by XoSuGaRbAbiiXo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont believe in love at first sight because you have to know a person before you can know if you love him or not
but anyway about your situation it may be love but im not sure. but watch out usually older guys take advantage of younger girls just cuz were younger and dont know any better.
2006-09-10 10:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by pearly_cherry 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes i do believe love at first sight. Ask my girlfriend she would tell you the same thing.
2006-09-10 10:19:27 · answer #11 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋