Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

She is forced to use my last name in regards to school and doctor visits, but I see on some of the bills she has sent me for things such as gymnastics that she is using her new last name. She thinks this is acceptable and can't understand why I'm hurt and upset about this. He lives about 1000 miles from me, but I still see him every 6-8 weeks and have him during the summer.

Am I wrong for having a problem with this?

2006-09-07 08:23:01 · 21 answers · asked by Kris 2 in Family

My boyfriends birthday was yesterday and I got him some nice things; however his ex wife gets him things from his kids which is fine I do it with my kids, here is my question I feel like she tries to out do me and does it through her children she got him $300.00 worth of stuff right down to boxers. I spent maybe half that because I have to budget my money, Is there something wrong with me or does it seem out of the ordinary that ex wife spends that much money on his gifts from his kids? Please I dont wont smart assed answers Im just wondering, She does this on his birtday and fathers day and Christmass and spends alot of money.

2006-09-07 08:22:50 · 23 answers · asked by landscaperschick73 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

me n my husband have been seperated since nov05.v havent seen each other nor had any talk.i tried many times but failed.hez stubborn.he didnt even cam to c our kid who born in june06.n now he has filed a case aginst me for child custody n have accused me of bad things..his frendz says he still has a soft corner for me.but i dont think he has.wat should i do?

2006-09-07 08:22:37 · 22 answers · asked by Dazzling damsel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mate's mother lives in another state. She is 86, half blind & almost deaf. She should not be driving. Her daughter lives nearby but is too "busy" to take care of it or her even though she has the means to hire someone for what she can't do. We're afraid she will kill herself and/or someone else. I was told to mind my own business since I'm not "family". Any suggestions?

2006-09-07 08:22:37 · 2 answers · asked by shermynewstart 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 08:22:19 · 15 answers · asked by tlc_0666 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 08:22:12 · 8 answers · asked by marissa k 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, i am the kind of person who tries to get along with everyone. i love to make people laugh and enjoy themselves. i am usually the life of the party. if someone is left out, i always go out of my way to try to include them. anyway, i have a little issue. sometimes if i am arguing with a friend and we stop talking, i refuse to be the first to call them and apologize because i feel like its a blow to my pride. i know that cant always be good, but i don't know how to change it. please help!

2006-09-07 08:21:55 · 12 answers · asked by Confused about life 1 in Friends

Hi.

At work, our manager's partner has just lost her baby.

We want to do something so they know how much we care about them, and the idea of a care package came up, except out of the thirty of us, no one really knows what we should put in. . .

Please help.

2006-09-07 08:21:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-07 08:21:23 · 11 answers · asked by tiabean2003 1 in Weddings

2006-09-07 08:20:33 · 5 answers · asked by nicca 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, lets write this in a way where no one will be like -'Your reported!!!"... say, lets say I'm eating and I stick my tougne in- this girl I'm with went nuts (in a good way), almost ripped my head off- so do girls generally like it when you move from the upper coast and let the taste buds slip all the way in? (Gene Simmons styles)

2006-09-07 08:20:32 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She has fallen and the world has whipped her so. I helped her out financially and now she wants back in my life, but I am leary to let her back in fully because she left me I never left her.

2006-09-07 08:20:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-07 08:20:28 · 4 answers · asked by korn_issues_29 3 in Friends

Just wanted to see how many guys actually clicked on this question. If you clicked, please admit it. just state if you are a male or female. i'm taking a survey.

2006-09-07 08:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by Amy D 2 in Singles & Dating

we are hoping to get married in october and want to find out how many guests we can have at the registery office on the day of our wedding

2006-09-07 08:19:17 · 16 answers · asked by CHRIS 1 in Weddings

me and my man is gonna be a yr on the 27 but we been through a lot to where were not getting along for the most part we lost our baby at 6 months and since then things wasn't going to well. we was arguing everynight . so we decided to give each other space to what that mean i don't know please explain.

2006-09-07 08:19:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm looking for a friend that I had in 6th grade. His name is Joshua Abrams. We lived in West Ogden Utah. He's a great artist and changed my life. Does anyone have any info on him? He moved in the summer between 6th and 7th grade. I'm 21 now and I still haven't stopped searching for him.

2006-09-07 08:18:21 · 3 answers · asked by susan 1 in Friends

Right after we started dating, my wife and I ended up going on a camping trip. We did not know it at the time - but her old boyfriend who she broke up with less than a month ago was there, too.
It was awkward for her - but almost MORE awkward for me!
Here I was having beers with a guy who had been banging my girlfriend less than a month prior!
Ok...fast forward...
My wife had an affair with a co-worker over the beginning of the summer. We have been married 8 years - she could not handle the guilt after awhile, and through counseling have worked our way through it.
Anyhow, last weekend we were invited to a wedding - and her lover was there!
Again - she did not know he would be there. I had to "pretend" I did not know he had been having sex with her. I was nice to him, but-
Why did I feel so "ashamed" almost?

Have other guys been in the same room - or had drinks - with someone they knew had recently slept with their wife or girlfriend?

What was it like for you?

2006-09-07 08:18:04 · 10 answers · asked by play_ball 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 08:18:04 · 22 answers · asked by daisy 6 in Singles & Dating

stop picking bad bodys

2006-09-07 08:17:53 · 12 answers · asked by paul s 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you call your love something like "sweetie"?

Sub question, do you call all your loves the same thing or does it change with each relationship?

2006-09-07 08:17:45 · 16 answers · asked by Greta Leigh 3 in Singles & Dating

I noticed that everytime I have sex with my boyfriend I can tell he is trying to smell my genitals. Is it that he wants to see if I have possibly contacted an STD or something? I've also caught him sniffing his fingers at various times when we are in the dark. He has been caught up in the past with cheating on me with his ex. Does he not trust me or what? He's told me in the past that one of his ex girlfriends had a horrible odor when they were active. I thought he was a pervert who just got off on sniffing the smell of women's odors or is it something else?

2006-09-07 08:17:20 · 16 answers · asked by stella 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 08:17:11 · 7 answers · asked by ***hesmyfoever*** 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 08:17:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do i get my boyfriend to talk to me while we are having sex, i realize when i talk during sex am more turn on.

having him talk to me i would enjoy sex more and i will know that he is beside me.
what do i say to him.

2006-09-07 08:16:39 · 28 answers · asked by WD 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this ? b4.I found out why after talking 2 him.He's White,Catholic & lives with his folks. I'm East Indian, 34 & Catholic.He's been living with them most his adult life. He has a steady job now. So he takes care of some of their bills, bought them a brand new car when they already had a car & does alot
of work around da house 4 dem. Since he travels alot 4 his work
his dad pays his bills & deposits his payck when he's away.
So he has their name on his account. When dis became an
issue I asked him about it & he said it's been that way for years
& why should he change it now & Bank will mess up if he tries
2 change it. Now he says he will not put money in that acct after
we get married. When his folks got 2 AZ for winter he will pay
their bills.His mail will still go 2 their home ater we marry. His
room is next 2 his parents.When he changes he never closes the door.His parents got upset when we snugled 2gether & huged each other in the couch. I still luv him alot

2006-09-07 08:16:33 · 15 answers · asked by cluelesschickus 1 in Weddings

2006-09-07 08:16:19 · 7 answers · asked by Thunderstruck 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

...for a pear type shaped body.

i have broad shoulders, 34 b sized breasts, the biggest part of me is my thighs/saddlebag/hips area.

my messurments as of today are: 34, 29, 39. im only 5'1in. tall.

ive been working out, trying to reduce and tone up my bottem half lol.

im thinking that a strapless, a-lined dress would be best but im not sure. what so you all think?

2006-09-07 08:15:14 · 14 answers · asked by lusciousevil 3 in Weddings

I haven't, but I always thought the idea was comical. And no, I would NOT do it if they had been used. I would take a bite otherwise though, for kicks.

2006-09-07 08:15:02 · 9 answers · asked by InternetPosterChild 2 in Singles & Dating

So I am madly in love with a man who happens to be black. The problem being that my family are Nazi's and told me if I even even date a black man I would be dis-owned and I would no longer have a home with them.
Well I can't see my life without this man, but I do love my family dispite how they think, they are family...
What do I do?

2006-09-07 08:14:36 · 19 answers · asked by Jane 1 in Singles & Dating