Family & Relationships - 7 September 2006

one long term one short and complicated, Without sounding up our own bums:o) we are not ugly girls either..infact quite the opposite, yet, how is it that we still find ourselves available???? we dont want realtionships but we do want fun.....we want attention, fun and dates! why do we keep meeting the same kinda blokes over and over? to be honest 1 of us attracts weird kinda fella with suspect personalities and the other attracts far too young guys.......this is not a joke, someone please give us some good tips on meeting guys or tips on dating...for Ireland!!!!!!!!!!! not USA where you all date and meet in nice places like book stores, coffee shops, its way harder here!

2006-09-07 08:33:14 · 3 answers · asked by irish cailin 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 08:33:06 · 16 answers · asked by lonly hunky guy 46 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 08:32:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im not sure if she fancys me but i think she likes me alot. im her best freind that is a boy. i dont know how to tell her?

2006-09-07 08:32:49 · 9 answers · asked by basher88888888 1 in Friends

She said 'then i am not enough for you?' and 'dont i satisfy you enough then?' I know that sex with a partner is much better but how can i prove to her that it is healthy and beneficial, even when we are making love?

Also she prefers to make love only after her shower that can be when im falling asleep and then she gets upset that I havent got the strength-im a day person and I told her that.

2006-09-07 08:32:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why do so many adults around here "speak" like teenagers?
Example: I dont know wut Im gonna do 'bout my man cuz he b cheatin' on me wit mah homegirl, but I luv him like krazie.


Seriously. Why?

2006-09-07 08:31:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I hung out with a male friend of mine not too long ago, who brought along a friend. We all hung out went to lunch, went shopping, went out for drinks, etc. I saw him (the tag-along) again at my usual hangout last night and we talked for awhile and then he asked for my number.

I gave him my number because you can never have to many friends but I did not elaborate on that when I gave him my number.
So he called me today and left me a message…here is my question.. Would it be weird/rude if I call him back to chat and tell him right away I don't want to date him or have any sort of relation with him unless it is friendly? I feel that he thinks since I gave him my number that means I'm fair game. I just don't want to seem arrogant. What should I do..? Tell him right off the bat when I talk to him so he doesn't try to ask me out on a date, or wait until I see him (we hang out at the same place all the time)?

2006-09-07 08:31:07 · 11 answers · asked by Amanduh 1 in Singles & Dating

me and her work at same co- but in different offices when she see me she smile to me and we begin talking together and she become happy and positive with me not like anyone in all co- .yesterday i have asked her to go to restaurant to have lunch but she refuse and i said ok we can do that later if you want and she said yeh .today i asked her to have cup of coffee together but also she refuse .so the question is , i realy like this girl and i think she do too but i don,t understand her ...people pleas be logical...thanks

2006-09-07 08:30:52 · 18 answers · asked by aladdin 2 in Singles & Dating

I've cought my boyfriend five times downloading porn on the computer.( This is after We've finished having sex and I'm sleeping).
I've told him how much it bothers me and he promises that he wont do it anymore.... but i always catch him. He hides in in files that he thinks i wont find it and it's really starting to get to me. It makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him and i want it to stop. When i do catch him he tries to lie to me about it and i dont feel like he loves me or that i can trust him. What do I do?

2006-09-07 08:30:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do you tell your 9 year old daughter about sex? any good books out there or websites? No perv answers PLEASE!!!

2006-09-07 08:30:30 · 7 answers · asked by poophead 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't like it. I like older men, preferably at least late 20s, but anywhere into his 40s. All of these 16-19 year old boys, not men, but boys keep hitting on me and I have told them that I already have a boyfriend, that is a man, not a little boy. I'm only 18, and I am in their age group, but I think that young boys such as these, are extremely childish, and they don't really deserve my attention. I like the experience of a guy in his 30s, not teens. Does anyone know why these little boys are doing this all of a sudden??

2006-09-07 08:29:44 · 11 answers · asked by Pirate_Wench 5 in Singles & Dating

serious answer please.

2006-09-07 08:29:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 16, and my litle brother is beeing picked on at school bye a kid i know. there both 12. I know there faily for a wile and i used to be friends. but there family made up rumers about me. so we ended the friendship and bin fighting ever sence.

I want to go his *** for my brotheres sake, i am not worried about concacwences. iv alread warned him to stop and he continues to do what he was doing. Should i beat the fvking **** out of him?

2006-09-07 08:29:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've recently come out of a tough 4 year relationship and i've met this nice guy but i'm not sure what to do cause he is to nice and the complete oppisite to my ex, why do us girls always want the bad ones. don't know what to do.. help

2006-09-07 08:29:00 · 5 answers · asked by Tori 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend who lives like 500 miles away. right now she is going through some difficult times and she is kinda depressed. lately, i have been sending her little things to make her happy - such as a card where i wrote a special note to her in, some candy, something for her car and a few other things. i have been preaching inspirational and motivational quotes to her and i made little business cards that i got laminated for her to carry around. anyway, any other small gifts you can think of that i can send her?

2006-09-07 08:28:54 · 3 answers · asked by Confused about life 1 in Friends

2006-09-07 08:28:48 · 5 answers · asked by Alvester W 1 in Family

i'm 13 would like 2 tlk 2 sum1 on msn or yahoo plz i'm super bored and like makin friends

luv lizzy!!(thats me by the way

2006-09-07 08:28:44 · 5 answers · asked by k zi k 1 in Friends

Just sitting here at work, thinking about my BF. We really dont have any set pet names for eachother, but a lot of times he says, what ever you want dear, or what ever makes you happy dear and I love that. Its so cute.. I was just curious about things your "partner" says to you to make you say awww.

2006-09-07 08:28:36 · 19 answers · asked by jam_psb 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 08:28:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why is he calling?

2006-09-07 08:28:26 · 17 answers · asked by jazzb 1 in Singles & Dating

i was planning on breaking up with my boyfriend tommorw so i told him that i wanted us to get to together alone cause i wanted us to talk , and he kept asking about what, but i said i wanted us to talk in person rather then over the phone, and i guess he figured it out cause he called back like 20 minutues ago saying his stomach was hurting and he couldnt eat all day cause he is afraid that i'm breaking up with him and asked if i was sounding like he was about to cry, and i'm soooo against doing it over the phone i had to say no, but what do i do tommorow now, if i break up with him now its gonna be even weirder , i guess i should have just told him when he asked but i felt so bad, what would you do, oh and if your wondering why i'm breaking up with him at all read my previous question posted

2006-09-07 08:27:30 · 7 answers · asked by LISA M 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

In the beginning of our relationship, my boyfriend of six months acted very insecure and told me i was too good for him and i deserved someone better. His friends teased him in front of me about it too saying I was way too pretty and nice to be with him. The thing is-he's attractive to me and many women, he seems confident and he even seems cocky at times. He also teases me a lot and it sometimes gets relentless. He also almost NEVER compliments me and he often criticizes every little thing i do. Is he doing this out of his own insecurity? What is going on with him? Please help!

2006-09-07 08:27:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So, I have this shirt that says "Thumper's Delicious Nutritious Carrots - 5 cents" And it has a picture of Thumper on it. The shirt is a basic black girlie t-shirt, so its not revealing or anything. But, I've noticed that evrytime I wear it, some guy always says something about it. They read the shirt and then make some kinda joke and remark. Now, do you think that Thumper has some sexual reference or do you think that guys make remarks because I have big boobs(even though you can't see it with the shirt on). Guys dont say anything with my other girlie shirts. When I bought the shirt I wasn't even thinking that it had a sexual meaning...I was thinking, oh cute Disney movie! Thumnper is not exaclty the Playboy Bunny! HaHa! What do you think???

2006-09-07 08:26:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be happy some where some one has it worse.

2006-09-07 08:26:36 · 10 answers · asked by brown 25 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-07 08:26:18 · 6 answers · asked by Ressa08 2 in Singles & Dating

To start with,I have just graduated and working for good company
with a decent payscale
Everday when I return home from work..its war.
My mom and dad always quarrel and fight among themself's..
I have to patch things up all the time,At times I work for 12 hours straight and come home ,try to stop thier fighting and cook the dinner.
Nowadays its getting really worse,My dad who is 60 yrs old is getting more short-tempered and scolds me and my mom most of the time for some reason or the other,
I try to avoid fights keeping in mind that my dad is old and a heart patient too.
I have no problem with my mom(59) but she at times starts
complaning about my dad and talks for hours on end about him !
Which sometimes gets on my nerves.
I have managed for a few years now,But today my mom told me one fact that got me really scared..My mom said that my dad once kicked me repediatly with his boots when I was around 6 yrs old!
I am really confused what to do and dont want to leave them!

2006-09-07 08:26:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-07 08:24:42 · 14 answers · asked by Ressa08 2 in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-07 08:24:34 · 10 answers · asked by sexxigurl 1 in Singles & Dating

Just 2 months outta a serious relationship and been enjoying my girlie nights with my bezzie mates.....but....i met a fine young man out one night who told me he was 20 (not bad) but im 26!!!!! i met him for a date as i wanted to be open minded and facnied him rotten, but after a while i got freaked out by his eagerness (wrong on my behalf i know) so thought id text him and meet again and see how it goes...........he then told me via TEXT hes actually 18! oh dear lord i thought id faint.....i like him but im way older....is that wrong????????

2006-09-07 08:24:32 · 16 answers · asked by mrs timberlake 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-07 08:23:33 · 8 answers · asked by Jossy J 1 in Singles & Dating