Just 2 months outta a serious relationship and been enjoying my girlie nights with my bezzie mates.....but....i met a fine young man out one night who told me he was 20 (not bad) but im 26!!!!! i met him for a date as i wanted to be open minded and facnied him rotten, but after a while i got freaked out by his eagerness (wrong on my behalf i know) so thought id text him and meet again and see how it goes...........he then told me via TEXT hes actually 18! oh dear lord i thought id faint.....i like him but im way older....is that wrong????????
2006-09-07 08:24:32 · 16 answers · asked by mrs timberlake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No not at all. There is nothing wrong with dating a younger man. I met a guy and he just turned 22 and I am 30ish. If you are really concerned you could wait til he turns 19 but he may be caught up by someone else by then. Live a little and if its not rape since he is of age. I hope it all works out for you.
2006-09-07 08:28:42 · answer #1 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know that it's WRONG ... but keep in mind that no matter how cute (or hot) he may be, his maturity level may not match yours. you may soon start thinking that you'd like to settle down and make babies (or not!) and he may not be anywhere near ready for that sort of adventure! and THAT could cause some problems. even if he enjoys what happens to MAKE the babies (*evil grin*), he may not be mature enough to hold a steady job in order to provide for you and the little ones. but hey, if you're sure you can keep it on a "light" level and not get too emotionally involved, go have some fun!
2006-09-07 15:32:06 · answer #2 · answered by baygrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not eally about the age, a person might be 30, but she/he act like 10, so it's not about age, it's more about maturity, you don't seem that you're 26, i thought you were 19 or something.Nways, if you really like this guy, go for it, nothing is wrong when there's love. ; )
2006-09-07 15:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with liking him but keep in mind that he did lie about his age right out the gate for no reason at all, so just think, What else is he lying about? and if he started off lying will it continue
2006-09-07 15:29:23 · answer #4 · answered by msshelene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with age, but the only problem is you might be done with college and off working and he is about to go to college. so the timing is off. say you are 30 and his 23-25. about to finish college or has just finish college, then you can plan for future. otherwise right now you are going to pay for everything.
2006-09-07 15:28:03 · answer #5 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You write like an 18 year old, I say it's more about maturity than the number, so go for it!
2006-09-07 15:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Sean J 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its still up to you or the both of you Is he mature for his age? You said hes fine so why not give it a shot?
2006-09-07 15:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
IF YOU LIKE TO GO TO BARS AND PARTY ..YOU SHOULD ATLEAST DATE SOMEONE WHO IS 21 AND OVER. IF DRINKING IS NOT AN ACTIVITY FOR YOU THEN I GUESS 18 IS OK
2006-09-07 15:29:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's legal, but obviously not bold or confident enough to keep it real. How much do you like him??? Well, he is legal so if u diggin him that much then go for it!
2006-09-07 15:27:47 · answer #9 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really as long as you both comply with going out bu tdo what you think is better for you
2006-09-07 15:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by lacy_gllsp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋