She has fallen and the world has whipped her so. I helped her out financially and now she wants back in my life, but I am leary to let her back in fully because she left me I never left her.
2006-09-07 08:20:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm a grown Man and I don't need advice on the matter, but I wanted to share it with others who may have had that happen to them. She left because I was a half grown Man and lacked maturity, but I grew up fast and my life is cruising right now. When your nice to someone and treat them right..the point is..they do come back to you when they know they was wrong. I'm ready to just stay friends actually, but it really makes a Man think because you married for a reason and if it was true it sticks like gue.
2006-09-07 09:11:06 · update #1
What a selfish lil Bit*h!!!!!
2006-09-07 08:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by ?Whiskey Girl? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did she leave you the first time? If you think she did because she was confused and young, then maybe you should give her a second change; however, she could also want back in your life because she liked your financial "help" and wants permanent access to the pocketbook again.
2006-09-07 15:25:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are if it didn't work the first time it is not going to work the 2nd time around. She probably knows she messed up. Don't put yourself through the same crap again. Know matter how hard it is to do - just say no.
2006-09-07 15:24:31 · answer #3 · answered by nicoleeakin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An ex is usually an ex for a reason. She left you and used you financially, and she wants to maybe do it again. Think long, think hard. Do you really want to do it again?
2006-09-07 15:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should elaborate a little more on this matter. If it doesn't feel right completely, then don't fall again! You will only be setting yourself up.... and her... for failure. Trust your instincts! remember, they are called ex's for a reason. take care:)
2006-09-07 15:36:07 · answer #5 · answered by shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom always taught me that they are an EX for a reason. So do not let her back in your life.
2006-09-07 15:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well either you want her back or your ready to move on and if so just tell her you have moved on with your life and you don't want her back cause she is the one that walked out on you and you was not to blame for her stupit stuff so she needs to move on and leave you alone
2006-09-07 15:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Billie G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her deer hunting,, super glue some antlers on her head and make her walk back to town,,, with'a little luck and some sharp shoot-n you will be home on the couch when it happens lol goood luck...
2006-09-07 15:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by marissa k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the game, dude... You know the score, so do what you have too... DOn't let yer head get wrapped up in ti, thats all..
2006-09-07 15:22:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then when she's back on her feet she can leave you again. Some guys are just gluttons for punishment.
2006-09-07 15:23:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to look back---why did she leave? whatever the reason is---has it been resolved? do you still love her? various factors need to be considered before you make that final decision....
2006-09-07 15:33:10 · answer #11 · answered by ltlebit77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋