me and my man is gonna be a yr on the 27 but we been through a lot to where were not getting along for the most part we lost our baby at 6 months and since then things wasn't going to well. we was arguing everynight . so we decided to give each other space to what that mean i don't know please explain.
2006-09-07 08:19:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That means.. give your relationship a break. Give you all time to get thoughts together to see if you all should continue the relationship or not... Kind of like putting your relationship on hold.
2006-09-07 08:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Space can mean a number of things, but for you, I think it means time to deal with situations that have happened. Just be supportive, and trust me I know that is hard. Right now you probably just want to cry all the time, that's okay get it out. Love is the most powerful thing in the world, it brings out our every emotion. Love can over come anything, sometimes it just takes time. If things are meant to be, they will work out, Just have hope, that is the important thing. Follow your heart and talk to your guy, if you both see eye to eye and feel the same way, you'll make it. Losing a baby that later on is a hard thing to deal with, I am very sorry for you both, just take this space time to absorb everything, and arrange a time to talk to where you can sort through all of your feelings together. Good luck.
2006-09-07 08:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by bluesbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys sound like you have been through a lot. I think that you guys probably do need some time apart. That generally means that he needs time to access the situation and see if he wants to continue with or with out you being his gf. You need to do the same. I know you love him, but sometimes you have to do what is best for you and him both. You could be a lot happier with someone else that you aren't emotionally attatched too. Take this time to think. That's what he is doing.
2006-09-07 08:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both probably still greiving, and each need time for some personal pain. When you lose a child, you either grip each other to the point of smothering one another, or push each other away for fear of losing that person, or you hurt so much, that you only have time to hurt, and the relationship suffers. Give each other time. My first marriage failed due to the loss of a child. I know it hurts, but turning from each other won't help. There is so much blame, guilt, and pure hate attached to the death of a child, you really need some counseling. I didn't even know I needed help untill years later. I wish I had gotten it sooner. I had so much hatred of cicumstances"why me?" that it allmost destroyed me.
2006-09-07 08:27:47 · answer #4 · answered by spidermonkeyfingers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means time to sort out your issues on your own and decide if you want to stay or leave. Use the time apart to draw up a checklist of pros and cons of being with him. Analyse each side thoroughly, determine what negatives you can live with and what you can't live with in a partner and then make your decision.
That will be a constructive use of your time apart.
2006-09-07 08:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tinnaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm very sorry for what you went through.
I have heard of couples splitting up after loosing a child
I also heard of couples getting a lot closer after this kind of loss.
wanting space means that he wants time for himself and without you being around
maybe he wasn't able to do the proper mourning and seing you every day reminds him of the lost baby more than when he is alone
I guess that he needs to be on his own to be able to get over it...
good luck to you
2006-09-07 08:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by julesloveslife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To think about each other and the situations you are encountering. To think about the future and reflect on the past. To really DECIDE if you two are going to be together or not.
2006-09-07 08:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by amylr620 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
means that he might not be able to handle the situation that is going on at home. maybe he see's your baby every where and he can not handle it. he wants to run away for a while. might be a good thing, might not be. time will tell. sorry about the baby.. cannot imagine.
2006-09-07 08:22:40 · answer #8 · answered by crystal s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about if u really want to be in the relationship. Weighing out the good and the bad and seeing which one comes out on top.
2006-09-07 08:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means you or he need time away from each other to think and clear your mind.
In other words, to figure out if you really want to be together or not.
Sorry about your loss.
2006-09-07 08:22:14 · answer #10 · answered by sour_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋