Family & Relationships - 6 September 2006

We have four children. One of them is not my husbands. I had an affair for a few months with a man up the road. Should I tell my husband? He has never asked and I imagine doesn't suspect a thing. The affair was a mistake, but I love my baby and my husband. What to do, if anything?

2006-09-06 03:46:46 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why is it that men LOVE looking at nude models and women that have hardly any clothes on, but get pi**ed when your woman wants to dress in revealing clothing..comeon, its sexy right?? i mean, yall like looking at it, so why is it not ok for your woman to dress like that?? :)

2006-09-06 03:46:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 03:46:28 · 29 answers · asked by brandine 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-09-06 03:46:25 · 1 answers · asked by aggie babe 3 in Singles & Dating

He attended here last year. Has lived with me on and off for years. Continually for the last 13 months. Mothers back in his life with her latest paramoor and wants him back he's 16. He doesnt want to go. she promised he would never have to change schools again. Last time he lived with her he got into legal troubkle. He's paid his dues and done his community service. This happened after she had once again moved him. I have no trouble with the boy. Now he can't attend school here because she registered him at the school in her district. Also took all the boys clothes and a game box he worked all summer to earn. He lives here, works here and did attend school here. Now they wont let him go to school until his mom agrees to re register him. She wont. This is the second day of school, I'm afraid is he misses too much he won't want to go back because he's falling behind daily. contacted courts, but may take months to resolve. he refuses to go to other school. What can i do?

2006-09-06 03:45:32 · 9 answers · asked by Margo 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is talking to a girl he was friends with in high school 7 years ago. Thy talk on IM all the time and sometimes on the phone. Shes not pretty, has a child, and is married. He hasn't hidden it from me and will answer any question i have about her. He says that if i were in the same situation he wouldnt worry, which he hasn't but i still HATE THE *****! Am i right?

2006-09-06 03:45:18 · 21 answers · asked by sexykitty614 2 in Singles & Dating

I have always loved american accents. But do americans love australian accents?

2006-09-06 03:44:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend had been going out for 4 months exactly when he tells me we should see other people. He said that he wasn't dumping me for someone else and that he still really liked me, but his life was really hectic at that time and he thought that a girlfriend would make it more complicated. He said that he wanted to go back out with me, so it was more like a break then a break up. The same day, I get a call from one of my best friends saying that he had called her. He talked about how he still loved me, but there were other girls that he liked that he saw every day. Also that the same day he broke up with me he went over to one of his friend's house and she asked him out and he was considering it. What I get from it is that he broke up with me before he started cheating on me. Also when he said that he wanted to go back out with me, he was saying that he wanted to go back out with me, but I had to wait until he went out with a bunch of other girls first. What does it mean?

2006-09-06 03:43:15 · 40 answers · asked by chelsea h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend says he loves me more than anything, an wants to be with me. thats grand but our relationship hasn't been normal for a number of months. he stays with me every weekend and i see him most nites but we never have s.e.x.. we have a son he isn't one yet wud this have anything to do with it. at the wekd i was so h.o.r.n.y and was dying for a kiss and cuddle and the rest and he just said im immature and don't understand we can't? what that all abt? im 20 he 25. we were supposed to be buying a house together and during the week he said no can't cos im too young and thinks be 2 much strain on relationship. i havent felt happy this past wile cos of lack of attention in bedroom i feel i can't chat to him or im being immature what is his problem? any help would be great??

2006-09-06 03:43:06 · 23 answers · asked by comeo!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 03:42:30 · 5 answers · asked by bob_smith_6666 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I saw my friend on Sunday. He dropped by unexpectedly. We talked for about 2 hours. He had told me 4 months ago that he wanted to move our relationship forward. When I saw him on Sunday, I asked him if things had changed between us. He told me if anything his feelings for me had grown deeper. I then asked him if he would like to start dating. He said yes. He then told me that he needed the assurance from me that was what I wanted us to do.

Did I do the right thing by asking him if he wanted to start dating? We have known each other for about a year. I was floored when he told me that his feelings for me had grown stronger. I told hm that my feelings had done the same and that I was crazy about him.

When a man tells you that his feeling have grown deeper for you, is this a good thing? His exact words were that "if anything," his feelings have grown deeper for me.

I am feeling a little scared and overwhelmed by all of this. He is very shy and I am too.

2006-09-06 03:42:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 03:42:00 · 4 answers · asked by grissel b 2 in Singles & Dating

in school she wuz doing all this slutty stuff like showing other ppl her bra nd putting an ipod in her shirt telling guyz 2 get it sitting on a guys lap giving him a kiss on the cheek just cuz she wuz dared 2 she even let his friend get in her shirt but when he asked her bout it she started crying i wuz there nd she rly did seem sry nd she sed she changed nd stuff nd she wouldn't that stuff nemore wut would u do if u were my friend?

2006-09-06 03:41:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife asked for a dildo. I brought her lots of cucumbers from my vegie patch. They were of all imagineable sizes. She threw them at me and then left me. I can't afford to buy her a dildo. What can I do?

I am waiting for another day and then file papers to divorce her. What do think if that should be my proper action?

2006-09-06 03:41:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is this the same thing? What does once removed really mean?

2006-09-06 03:40:55 · 7 answers · asked by Chloe 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughter is 17 yrs old, she has known this guy,they are just friends, for four yrs,he was sent to iraq 3 weeks ago, he was killed in his first raid, his mom asked my daughter if she wanted to see the pictures of him, he was shot in the head, she is very upset and i'm not sure how to deal with this grief.

2006-09-06 03:40:52 · 8 answers · asked by diconme333 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-06 03:39:45 · 35 answers · asked by Nessie Y 1 in Family

I have realised that the only times I am feeling fine with myself is when I have a man used as a slave at my feet licking them carefully to make me feel relaxed.
I have also discovered that punishing a man excites me, I like to whip them and watch them kneeling in front of me begging for mercy.

My question is: am I wrong? are there other girls like me?

thanks!

2006-09-06 03:38:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 03:37:46 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

hello. okay, i hope someone out here reads this and gives an honest opinion. i started dating a guy in jan and a few months later we moved in with eachother. hes slighty older and was very nuts about me until i showed feelings back, guess he got cold feet. well, our lease was up and i moved out. i really thought our relationship was over, at the time he had intentions of moving out of state and things just seemed weird. i started seeing another guy i met. JUST hanging out, but we had sex twice. i sat here alone last night feeling terrible. i havent had sex with "the boyfriend" the first guy in a while, but did spend the evening with him yesterday and since i seem distance hes being his sweet self again. another issue, today is my birthday. who do i spend it with? i feel like a terrible person and almost feel i should stay alone. what should i do? break up with both, pick one, be honest? help!!!!

2006-09-06 03:37:38 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Legs, Butt, Breasts, Personality, Etc.....?

2006-09-06 03:36:43 · 10 answers · asked by City slicker 5 in Singles & Dating

A 14 yr old looks 16/17 wears no make up or slutty clothing, is being grabbed on the butt by her "grandmother" She said that her gran swatted her butt playfully when she was younger. Now she "grabs" her & squeezes it. The girl has just come out with this. She is afraid of her father & grandparents & will do nothing to defend herself around them. Her Mom wants to go to the cops but the girl isn't sure. I think Mom should handle the biotch. The ploice & DCS won't do anything w/out a witness & if the kid won't talk there's nothing they can do. The parents are divorced & she is forced to go to visitation 2x per month & stay w/gran. What can/should Mom do?

2006-09-06 03:36:15 · 20 answers · asked by R P 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

The majority of the people I meet or encounter at University tend to be well let's not mention it. I just wonder why it is that the kind of people who interest me are not around. I feel so out of place. I have so much on my mind and I question what good it is going to do me by putting questions up on the internet.

2006-09-06 03:35:27 · 4 answers · asked by joshuaswifte 1 in Friends

I have dark brown eyes and would love to have green eyes like my dad!

How about you?

2006-09-06 03:35:03 · 37 answers · asked by Tarnibee 2 in Singles & Dating

Use my nickname as help...

2006-09-06 03:34:21 · 14 answers · asked by Benks 3 in Singles & Dating

My sweetheart was 21 years older than me and we were perfect for each other. We were never happier. What do you think? He's gone now tho, from cigarettes.

2006-09-06 03:34:11 · 20 answers · asked by catholicgirl55 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he either calls me every other day or text message or something..he also always wants to know how my weekend went or what i am doing this weekend

2006-09-06 03:34:08 · 19 answers · asked by sexydime99 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 03:33:27 · 3 answers · asked by d g 1 in Friends

2006-09-06 03:32:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since school started a few days ago I have been feeling distant from my best (girl) friend (I'm a guy). We dont talk often, we dont hang out and I feel awkward around her sometimes. I dont want answers like "forget about her", because I really love her and she is an integral part of my life. We are both 15. What can I do? If you could, please go into detail.

2006-09-06 03:31:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating