Family & Relationships - 6 September 2006

My boyfriend and i broke up after we tried to have sex but i was too tight. He got discouraged and we broke up. Now i really want him back. He used to be really thuggish and gangsta but he's turned around he works with kids he's everything i want and more. But it still doesnt excuse the fact he broke my heart so many times and hurt me continuosuly during our relationship. He doesn't show signs of if he wants me back what should i do?

2006-09-06 09:05:32 · 7 answers · asked by honey dip 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were (or so i thought) happily married. And just recently he told me that he had deep feelings for my daughter.Who is 17 but will be 18 in less then a month. My daughter apparently has these feelings as well. And come to find out that they've been having sex for over two years. And she admits that it was her idea. Now she wants to move in with him. And i don't want to let her. I don't want him near my daughter. Is there something i can do to prevent this. Keep in mind she is almost 18. Please help me.

2006-09-06 09:04:38 · 64 answers · asked by claire c 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months, been friends for 7 years, lived together for 4 months.

We are both in debt and are struggling to keep our heads above water. I have decided to seek help and I've been offered services from a financial advisor for free, because he is Partner's with my boss (Whom I trust fully) He is helping me to set my budget and has opened up a Roth IRA savings plan for me.

I talked to my boyfriend about how I would like us to work together and get out of debt and on a road to success and he basically, told me well that is your deal, I dont want to budget myself, it will be too boring (he is 32 years old) I am 25, and I am ready to start planning for my future.

Should I move on or stick with someone who isnt interested in planning for the future?

2006-09-06 09:03:43 · 6 answers · asked by Me 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my partner of 5 years and i are at relationship breakdown,he feels that we have reached the end of the road...we always fight and argue he said i will never change he treats me like a door mat and i let him,commuincation is a big issue..he asked me to move out i have not but he has not mentioned it for a week..even though he told me its over im still living with him we still share a bed i still do everything 4him..he does not touch me but sleeps with me in same bed he hardly looks at me im deseprate to save this relationship any ideas????thanks....

2006-09-06 09:02:59 · 9 answers · asked by skinnyminniekitten 1 in Friends

How should I treat her, I mean, she is really shy, she don't even know how to kiss, some tips please.

2006-09-06 09:02:56 · 21 answers · asked by Mr.BrownSider 2 in Singles & Dating

It's not her. It's some of my family and friends, and especially my co-workers. I can't stand it when she brings lunch to me at my job, and they start talking about her and laughing and teasing. I think it is so disrespectful, not only to my wife but to me as well.

My wife is self-conscious sometimes, and I really get upset when people start laughing and staring at her while we are trying to eat together at a resturarant sometimes. I wish people would lay off with their stereotypes of the average "obese" person.

Personally, I think she is the sweetest and most beautiful person in the world, but when she gets really down she starts eating again even heavier. How do I stop the employees from poking fun of her?

2006-09-06 09:02:35 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want him to realize what he did to me it hurt so bad

2006-09-06 09:02:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend has been with his wife for 2 years and married for one year.

He just found out she had a one night stand with her co-worker.

He is very religious so he doesn't want to divorce, instead he wants to work on their relationship and move on. He would like to start a family in a year since they have no children now.

Do you think this is possible?

Do you think a marriage can last and be HAPPY after one of the spouses has cheated.

2006-09-06 09:02:29 · 17 answers · asked by HappyHippo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-06 09:02:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

and what about mental health nurses?

2006-09-06 09:02:05 · 15 answers · asked by jay dee 1 in Singles & Dating

Bored at work who would like a beverage:)

I'll take a passionate Margarita..I need one lol:)

2006-09-06 09:01:56 · 14 answers · asked by Green_Eyez:) 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-06 09:01:15 · 38 answers · asked by Circlometry?? 5 in Family

Hey...my girlfriend and I been going out for aobut 3 months and friend with benefit for about 4 months. we broke up recently but she still loves me and she want to be with me but then her 7th grade crush notice her this year and liked her. she also liked him too. now she doesnt know who to choose. her 7th grade crush name Brian we hate each other. Brian and his cousin, Andy start **** with me and want to jump me. My ex/girlfriend kinda mad at me she ignored me now. how can i tell her that i love her i never wanted to leave her. I cant force love but how do I win a girl heart?

2006-09-06 09:00:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend and I want to run for the same office for our grade's officers this year. Vice President to be exact. We haven't talked about it much but I really want to think about it before the time to elect comes. She is one of my Best Friends and I don't want answers like "if she gets mad then she's not your freind" and all that. I want to know how I can avoid a fight. I really want this office and I am not about to give it up. It's a big responsibility and I think that I can do it. Last year we had a V.P that didn't help hardly at all and I don't want that to happen again (not sayin that my BFF is not responsible). I really need help!!! Please!!!

2006-09-06 09:00:09 · 4 answers · asked by ♥live laugh love ♥ 3 in Friends

I would like to know about him again, if someone can tell me about him he lives in atlanta GA, he is about 30-31 years old now

2006-09-06 08:59:49 · 2 answers · asked by bridgettestefan680 3 in Friends

I want to know if you can move out before the age of 18 if your close to the age can you just pack up and leave?

2006-09-06 08:59:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

would u ever let go of someone who u love!or fught for him

2006-09-06 08:58:55 · 46 answers · asked by alan's girlfreind 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm on the fence, but it's just hanging in the basement. It still fits, and I wore it on our 5th anniversary, just for kicks. We renewed our vows at 10 years, but I didn't wear it then. Maybe I should save it for our daughter? It's probably out of style by now, but I think it's pretty. It's an off-the-shoulder straight line satin, with a full train. Is that still in?
I still have the shoes, veil and everything.

2006-09-06 08:58:49 · 25 answers · asked by mom 4 in Weddings

He never signed papers as being the father, but he was married to another woman when he had an affair so he didn't want to lose his marriage. He lost it anyway. It's been 9 years and he finally did the test. It came back negative 0.05% What is the next step. He's paying child support for the kids and he want to get it off of him. serious only.

2006-09-06 08:58:49 · 18 answers · asked by RG 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-06 08:58:49 · 41 answers · asked by Candy 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been married 11 years and I have 3 step children and my husband doesnt help pay much of the finaces and he feels I should pay for most of them and I have taken care of his children for 11 years. I think he loves me in a way but I dont think he knows how I feel like a maid not a mother and a wife. I want to have a kid of my own but he is not able to produce anymore sperm because of his medical condition.I am serious I dont know what to do and I have tryed to ask him to go to conselling and he wont. I try and try and dont get me wrong i dont feel sorry for me I just want to be happy
Please some one give me an honest answer? Thanks

2006-09-06 08:57:50 · 18 answers · asked by lori 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was playing with my necklace in class the other day and my teacher told me to put it under the desk. so i did. then i went to the bathroom with my backpack when the bell rang. i left the necklace there thinking it would be there the next day cause i was gonna miss the bus. the next day i went into that class and i looked under there and it was gone! now today i was hanging out with my friend and all of the sudden i look at her neck and theres my necklace! i asked her where she got it and she said, my oyfriend, jesse got it for me." im like thats my necklace he got it from my desk. that was 20 dollars. and then she said well its mine now. ugh im soo friggin mad at her!!!!!!!!! what should i do? i cant get anyone else involved bc i have no proof!!!

2006-09-06 08:57:35 · 13 answers · asked by .oh snap.london bridge.oh snap. 3 in Friends

We are both in our late 30's, both are divorced after 10+ years of marriage. We have been dating for 3 months. I think she is gods gift to me, totally perfect in almost everything she does. From the way she treats me, her beautiful smile, and hottie body!
We have been making very passionate straight up love for about 6 weeks. Some secessions have lasted for upwards of 3 hours but always lasting more than 1 hour. We can completely get into each other.
Last week she said she would prefer I was a little more rougher with her, that she liked sex to be rough. She said she really enjoyed anal, and her nipples pinched hard, but she was too claustrophobic to be tied up. She said that the harder I pounded her butt the better it was.
So, I had my 1st experience with anal, it was good ... OK, extremely good! But what else can I do? What else can I offer to make her scream? If she can come out of the blue with this what's next? Anything else can I do to stay a step ahead of her?

2006-09-06 08:56:47 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

an attraction to a relative?
how far did it go?

2006-09-06 08:56:44 · 7 answers · asked by Krissi 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, I am engaged and getting hitched June 2007! Well, guy I dated 6 years ago in Highschool is in a graduate school class with me. He caught me off gaurd and asked for my digits, I gave them to him because we used to be pretty good friends. He called, I didn't answere over this weekend..then I miss a day of class, he text messaged me i texted back..then he asked what I was doing tonight..I don't know how to turn him down when he really isn't asking me on a date. But, I know I shouldn't hang out with him, because I used to really like him, and well you know how it goes..some flames never go all the way out. So how do i just tell him that I am engaged, and what do I tell him why I can't hang outw ith him. Do I just tell him that because I used to hjave a thing for him, we shouldn't be friends?? Also, I don't want to act like I am being arrogant and assuming his friendly gestures are laced with romantic feelings!! what do I text him back?!?! Thanks!
P.S. lay off the grammar..

2006-09-06 08:56:32 · 6 answers · asked by Miss Kitty0609 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't need any advice on how to stop drinking or anything like that, I'm just curious to see how many men would put up with something like that for the sake of having a beautiful wife.

2006-09-06 08:55:19 · 44 answers · asked by colorist 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Here is the kicker--he told me a few days in advance that he got me a "ton of gifts for my b-day", then the day comes and he got me my favorite cup-cake and a video game...I am thinking his definition of tons of gifts is different than mine. I was all excited because he set up the gift giving scenario, then he did not deliver--weird....

2006-09-06 08:54:42 · 12 answers · asked by clemus 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im a guy and i have a gf, im getting on well but i havnt kissed her yet, does anybody have any tips on how 2 kiss?

2006-09-06 08:54:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you feel you're in a never ending cycle of kids,cleaning,cooking,? Don't get me wrong-I love it-but feel bored sometimes.

2006-09-06 08:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by tea1894 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need tips for a guy giving a chick head since my boy is not much good at it and i give him tips but can't since never had it done to me before him

2006-09-06 08:54:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating