How should I treat her, I mean, she is really shy, she don't even know how to kiss, some tips please.
2006-09-06 09:02:56 · 21 answers · asked by Mr.BrownSider 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just take your time and don't push things. Be considerate.
Cuz you've got all the time in the world if you are considering a serious relationship
2006-09-06 09:05:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She must be shy and hot - if not this sounds like too much of a problem. Without knowing her - it is impossible to make a good suggestion. Just be really kind to her - treat her respectfully like a girlfriend - not a friend friend. Things happen naturally if they should happen at all - nothing should have to be forced ever. Shy does not = sexually ignorant. She may not have kissed but I'm sure she knows what kissing is and will be more than willing to kiss you IF and WHEN she wants to.
2006-09-06 16:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Soramdara 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean how should you treat her? Treat her like you would treat any girl you were interested in, with respect. Its not a bad thing that she is shy.
If she does not know how to kiss, teach her. Be gentle and don't pressure her. I am sure that once she gets more comfortable with you things will be easier for her.
2006-09-06 16:07:37 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess i once fell under the same category with your girlfriend. So if i was in her place i would expect you not to be as shy, but to treat her well and give her stuff and maybe a little foward without overdoing it, because she might have dreams, lol. Dont act quiet because i would guess she wouldnt want to date a guy that acts as intimitated as she might be. So be gentle and take things slow and work your way up, since you are her 1st. But make sure you treat her like you would treat any other girl. You dont want her feeling retarded or something.
2006-09-06 16:17:38 · answer #4 · answered by LoNLi_PrInCEsS 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely - go slow! Make this "first" a memorable one for her. Chances are - and I hazard to say it - you will not be around forever. You must accept that fact now! Not to say this an absolute, you may very well be, but chances are you won't. What I also know is that you will never be forgotten by her. You will be her "yard stick", her "standard" for every guy that follows you for the rest of her life. I don't understand it myself but I know it to be true.
Be kind. Be understanding when she says, or does things, even she doesn't understand. Be true to her! Be honest with her but never harsh! Let her heart grow. You have an opportunity to live forever... thru her and in her. Bless you.
2006-09-06 16:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this exact phase. I was the shy girl, though. When i got my first boyfriend, i wouldnt even talk to him at first, but getting to know him better and talking to him more actually helped me. I didnt talk to anyone at school, either. I was so shy......but now...i'm talkin like crazy and even singing in front of hundreds. Just get to know her better. Let her know that she doesnt need to be shy. You might even help her in more ways than you think
2006-09-06 16:09:21 · answer #6 · answered by SinginChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont constantly give her compliments or force her into anything she isnt ready for this will make her uncomfortable, give her time she will get used to you after a while, just try ways to make her more relaxed like making her laugh, joking about. Once she has started talking more etc then just go to kiss her and after tell her she is a good kisser, sorry if this doesn't make sense ive tryed my hardest to explain
2006-09-06 16:08:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her with respect, and wait for her to let you know when she is ready......
She may be a VERY GOOD GIRL WHO WANTS TO SAVE HERSELF FOR THE MAN SHE MARRIES!!!!
Be a real gentleman and ASK her if you can kiss her..... You might be surprised at the response you get..... Dont try to push her into anything she is not ready for... She will respect you more for waiting for her!!!!!
2006-09-06 16:12:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should give her time...I'm sure she will allow u to kiss her...If the time is right....
u remind me of my past about my first kiss...
that time I was shy too...I didn't let my boyfriend to kiss me!!!but my boyfriend was patient with me...so I let him kiss me after we had a relationship almost a month.....
so be patient with her...I'm sure she will let you kiss her....
Good luck!!
2006-09-06 16:15:55 · answer #9 · answered by naomi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first boyfriend was just really patient with me. He talked me through alot of things and made me feel comfortable with him and myself. After awhile I was all over him ! It was easier once we started building some trust together.
2006-09-06 16:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by OnE GiRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋