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I need tips for a guy giving a chick head since my boy is not much good at it and i give him tips but can't since never had it done to me before him

2006-09-06 08:54:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

I CANT GIVE MYSELF HEAD!

2006-09-06 09:04:14 · update #1

14 answers

it's hard for me to imagine a guy not knowing how to give great head to a woman, but maybe i'm just special like that ;)

you will have to use your imagination a little to make this work: since you can't give yourself head, you're going to have to use masturbation to figure out where and how you like to be touched. Correlate that to his tongue, teeth, lips, etc.

review some porn videos; some are GREAT instructional aids, but a lot are just crap -- so you want to look for ones that show the giver providing the sort of service you think you'd like to receive.

determining what works well is fairly straightforward: a little experimentation may be necessary, but that's all healthy, anyway.

when you find one or a few that you like, have your guy STUDY the flicks: he's gotta know that he's supposed to be learning; else, he'll get caught up in the show, start thinking with his little head and forget what's important.

2006-09-06 09:02:45 · answer #1 · answered by wireflight 4 · 0 0

i hate q's like these but if u need help here is my 2 cents 8 )

If it is bad, and I mean BAD, but you want it to be good with him, you are going to have to work together. He doesn't know how it feels either, he probably thinks he is doing a good job.

You have to tell him what feels good and what doesn't. Dont sit there and take it because he will never learn. Tell him what places feel good when he does what. Tell him what to avoid. Tell him where to kiss, tell him how to kiss it. You are the woman and you are the one recieving the pleasure / pain, so you should give him a crash course on pleasuring you orally. He might be embarrased so dont joke about it. Reasure his confidence and tell him that its just between you and him, make him feel good about it, because after all he IS doing it for YOU anyway... ; )

2006-09-06 09:00:10 · answer #2 · answered by Larry C 2 · 0 0

you guys need to explore your vigina and clit together, this may take a while because it may take a while for a women to climax while getting head. Have him take 2 fingers and put them inside you to try to find your G-spot, then have him take his tongue and stimulate your clit by licking real fast while using his fingers to stimulate your g-spot inside you, or have him suck on your clit while using his fingers to stimulate your g-spot, he needs to have some coordination also. You can help him out too by moving to help stimulate yourself. Like I said make sure you guys have time, this is no 2 minute process, but if he is willing to please you, he will take the time to do it right. Good Luck Girlfriend!

2006-09-06 09:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by smoody 2 · 0 0

Learn together. Tell him to try different things. Different pressure, different tongue movements. And when you like something tell him or moan a lot to let him know you are enjoying it.

2006-09-06 08:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0 0

Have him lick in slow steady circles, focusing on your clitoris and insert a finger in you...

I swear, it will take you to the moon and back.

2006-09-06 08:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Uh-May-Zing 5 · 1 0

Kissing good and softly your clitoris,using the tongue nicely.Kissing your vagina lips,softly,nicely too,using the tongue.Good luck.

2006-09-06 09:06:31 · answer #6 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0 0

make sure he keeps his tounge hard and bury his face in it. Oh i'm soooooo jealous. lol

2006-09-06 08:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by ree ree 3 · 0 0

If he won't listen, then he won't listen. Find someone with better hearing or bigger ears.

2006-09-06 09:06:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

practice makes perfect!! Show him to the G-spot, and explain its importance!!!

2006-09-06 08:56:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Explore yourself. Find what and where you like it, and point it out to him.

2006-09-06 08:55:44 · answer #10 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0 1

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