I love my husband but I am hurt and confused ...Married 12 yrs. second for me first for him.He tells me often that he loves me,we hold hands often when driving somewhere,he kisses me (never more tan a light peck on the lips)he calles me daily 2 times from work . we get along most of the time,we never have sex,it has been 7 + years,I am telling you the truth,I ask him why ,he says he dosent know or he is just tired and out of shape,he says we will,let it just happen,things will get better,etc.I have heard so many reasons....He does not cheat ,I am absolutly positive,not gay ,positive,Is it possible for a man to never have to ....well you know...have an orgasm?like when he sleeps if he is not sexually active for some time?I thought it builds up and just happens to a guy in his sleep.as far as I can tell it does not happen to him.I just don't understand why he never has that desire,I am kind to him and offer myself only to be rejected ,how can I cope.what would u do?I am so sad,confused.
2006-09-05
14:56:11
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