2006-09-05 15:04:47 · 11 answers · asked by gone stag 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
REAL love isn't like that at all. When we are young we go through frequent infatuations and we often believe this is love. In some rare cases we do fall in love young, but it is far rarer than most people seem to think.
When it is REAL love you'll find something you never expected. It's gentle and kind. It's patient and caring. It can be passionate just as it can be gentle. Rough and rude is far more a desription of lust or infatuation than love. Love takes pleasure in the quiet moments. Sitting together on the couch is just as special and magical as a passionate cruise. Love is undescribable. It's a feeling that, when shared, brings joy to every day.
2006-09-05 15:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, everyone can call me a loser, but here is my answer.
I have been around long enough and been through enough of the thorns to be scarred, but love is like a flower and it can not bloom without good and bad times. eg if you are in a relationship that has no arguments, you are not in a true relationship. 2 people can NEVER be exactly alike, there must always be a difference in personality and there must be little fights to sort things out. Think of 2 magnets, the 2 positive anodes are identical yet they can not join together, where the positive and negative will try to get together. So to is what love terms as 'animal magnetism' you must have differences to get together.
Love will make you feel like a million dollars, at other times it will hurt you like a knife in your heart. All you have to do is to learn to 'Tame the beast' and make it work for you.
This is hard and takes a lot of pain to master, though if you are young take the pain, so that when you finally meet the right person (who will have learned the same lessons) you can nurture it and make it grow into the rose that it should be.
Hope this helps.
2006-09-05 15:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by CLOCKWORK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be many things. It can tear your heart out at times and fill you with the sweetest joy at others. They say love is a full time job and harder then any career, child or anything. I have had my heart tore out and understand how you feel totally. I have not only lost my first love but the child we beared also. Dont give up. You will find it and when you do you will know. Nothing or noone is perfect though you have to learn to comprimise and take the good as well as the bad. However the good should definately out weight the bad... Good Luck I hope you find the happiness and love of someone true.
2006-09-05 15:10:16 · answer #3 · answered by BJC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is tender, rough, and it pricks when you are at the right age for it. It's rude and boisterous when you are young.
2006-09-05 15:07:57 · answer #4 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Bard Shakespeare, 'tis so
*sigh*
2006-09-05 15:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by Free Spirit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be very cruel and painful until you find the one. But when you do you'll know! You'll be able to feel the difference! Oh it's amazing!
2006-09-05 15:06:48 · answer #6 · answered by 7766jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is all those things and in between. You can make it what you want it to be. Just like every other thing in your life, your approach and attitude helps to make things become what you want them to be for you.
2006-09-05 15:09:01 · answer #7 · answered by dansza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-09-05 15:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by ang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes but hopefully not always
2006-09-05 15:10:25 · answer #9 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're just ugly.
2006-09-05 15:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by Slappywag 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋