I have this friend that I have known probably about 15 years. We went to jr high school together. Also we are both now 30. We dated a few times after we both graduated, he was the nicest guy I have ever dated. We had went to different high schools. He decided to join the Army and was sent to Germany after basic training. We lost contact with him being in Germany, I ended up getting married at a young age to someone else. Within the past 5 months or so He looked me up on Classmates. He has also called me from Iraq, where he is currently. It seems like we had never lost touch. He tells me everything and I tell him basically everything. I just get the impression by our conversations that he would like more than a friendship, or maybe he could just be very lonely being so far from home. Anyone have an answer?
2006-09-05 14:54:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
pray for his safe arrival home and keep two things in mind-1. HE looked you up first and 2. if you get the impression he may want more he probably does. But it could be he just needs to he a familiar voice that soothes him. Wait and see when he returns how things play out.
2006-09-05 14:58:34 · answer #1 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Friend,
You know, there's a risk that he could be reading ths now! All for the good if so!
Now, we don't have sufficient data to decide either way, and if you have to proceed, you will have to trust your instincts and play it by ear.
One option is to take control over the way the relationship is going. Do you want something more than a friendship, or not? Then subtly steer the relationship towards wherever.
I'm not asking you to be manipulative, just wanting you to be active. That way, at least, we can take responsibility over what happens...
2006-09-05 22:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by ASH RAJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First where is your marriage , is it ok , fine , Good - Answer .
Think and decide what you want ?
Now , If there was a attraction between both of you, you would have been ended up with marriage but that is not the case.
He is alone , still you are good friends .
In reality we must feel free and realx in the marriage
do not push your self , just watch your feelings .
create more friend ship with your partner also .
Good luck .
2006-09-05 22:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm....well, i wouldnt go asking him "Do you love me?" Because thats a little too much--does he know your married? Because if he does liek you that might change everything with him knowing that, and if he doesnt love you and you ask him then he might not talk to you as much--im not an awesome advice giver, but thats what i would do
2006-09-05 21:59:17 · answer #4 · answered by iiHELPER 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a grown up now...it's okay to ask him what he wants from you. That's what I love about being 30...no games.
2006-09-05 21:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie Mae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give it up to him when he tells you too. Your the girl and he is the guy. He gets it when he wants it.
2006-09-05 21:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them straight up
2006-09-05 21:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by SweetChildofMine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay true to your husband.
2006-09-05 22:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by coco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
!!!!!!!ASK HIM NOW!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-05 21:58:10 · answer #9 · answered by gadzooks113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋