One friend in particular,I dont want to picture what he explains!I'm 36 yr old heterosexual that likes keeping that kind of thing to himself so why am i made to feel like a prude?(if that's the right word when I'm far from it?
2006-09-05 14:59:09 · 17 answers · asked by karlos 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dare I say you are a last of your kind. I love that you don't kiss and tell. Why aren't more men like you?
2006-09-05 15:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by moontreefairy76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know I ask myself that all of the time. Let's face it not all sexual stories are great to follow along with visual images. When will people (both male and female) realize that their sexual stories could be make some toss and turn in their sleep not from envie but from the crippling visualization of what they casual mentioned(as if it is the hottest sh*t on the planet) too some innocents persons ears.
Bottom line sing a stupid song that stays in your mind and do it out loud multiple times and every time he tells his stories until he starts humming them.
2006-09-05 22:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 15 and i dont like hearing peoples sex lifes neither trust me your not being a prude. A prude is if you wont do anything too that person your with/going out with because your scared. So don't feel prude because you dont like hearing that stuff your not the only one in the world that doesnt want too hear that
2006-09-05 22:05:33 · answer #3 · answered by birttany s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is upto you whether you like or not but because of the interest of the sexual behaviour those people who has not experienced like to talk much because their sexual behaviours are suppressed because of the social reason. Once it is outbrust then it comes out as the violence. If you don't like, it is better but don't hate the people who want to talk about it rather if you have any idea about it you can just reply their quest as a social behaviour. You should not negalate this aspect. After all to ask about the sexual behaviours and talk about are the psychological aspect of human beings. If something is hidden than everybody want to explore or to know.
2006-09-05 23:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by digendra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hear ya. you're not a prude [is that a bad thing?] the other guy is just grossing you out as it would me. we don't need a discription. been there, done that. don't care and would rather not hear about how they go about it. i just turn away and hope they get the hint. got a wife. got my own peep show.
2006-09-05 22:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by La-z Ike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about what ur friends say i mean if they want to share there sex details thats just rong to brag a bout things like that. i belive like u that bedroom secrets are secrets between u n ur partner. i belive that braging about sex is disrespectful to the one person u are sleping with even if there not there to hear whats being said.
2006-09-05 22:13:27 · answer #6 · answered by thinkbecthink69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, why do people do that? I have a friend who does it. What makes them think you want to know their tale of sexual horror? I think sometimes they want advice, but other times...well why why why? Really i just don't like it, isn't it indiscreet to kiss and tell? I think so, I wouldn't want to do it myself but then again if i need advice about sex i'll read a miriam stoppard book or something.
maybe men do it because they think it's clever...you poor dear tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable and to tell it to somebody who cares to know!
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2006-09-06 02:44:12 · answer #7 · answered by lady_sephie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I wish there were more men who shared your views when it comes to talking about sexual experiences.
Just about every woman who reads this will be impressed.
2006-09-05 22:03:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in your problem where just same because, i have also the atittude like you when i say to them pls will you stop they answer me! get lost or either i think your still virgin? i always said to him yes i am! that the time they stop talking..............for me that 's a gentleman and thier noithing wrong with that ok! good luck to there career!hhahahahahahah
2006-09-05 22:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by stephenking28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently, because you are mates, and both of you are blokes, maybe that person thinks it's okay to share his personal stories with you. that's quite normal for blokes to do. but yeah, not everyone likes to hear those. that's why they think you're weird. but nah, you're alright.
2006-09-05 22:08:48 · answer #10 · answered by jose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋