He stood me up for a dinner at my house and then called six hours late explaining he was out all night with his friends and his phone wasn't working. Furthermore, he got all pissed off because apparently his roommate saw me online on the dating website where I met this guy in the first place. We've been out only two times and fooled around a bit, but didn't sleep together. Now he's ignoring me and won't take my calls. I did have a blast when out with him however. Any thoughts?
2006-09-05 15:03:29 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yikes, isn't it a little early in the relationship for that much drama, I say he is a goner. Just think about what a nightmare he will be to date in three months. Isn't he supposed to be on his best behavior in the beginning of the relationship?
2006-09-05 15:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by lukafoo74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said it once and I'll say it again: If it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it's a duck! Something deep inside of you has this guy on radar and you need to ask yourself why. Perhaps it's time to exit this relationship before it is too late. You see my dear, he got upset about you being on the dating website because he realized that you are out there "looking around", just like he is; it is apparent that he has found someone else. Dump him!
2006-09-05 15:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, take it as a sign of what is to come. I am not sure what your age group is, but it does not sound like the start of a long and lasting relationship. If you are OK w/ "blast" then I say, see where it goes...if you are wanting a long building relationship, then I would keep looking.
2006-09-05 15:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by K B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all he stude you up. Unless he can prove that a family member died there is no excuse for that. Then he gets mad at you for being online when he was out doing god knows what with his friends. Get rid of this jerk. You can find someone way better than that. If he won't take your calls don't waste your time or energy on him.
2006-09-05 15:07:36 · answer #4 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he really doesnt care. they have phones around town that you can use to call if your going to blow someone off. like hey my friends dragged me downtown and im not sure if im dd or not so im gonna miss dinner. not hard real easy and the dating site is just dumb if he meet you on there. but you also have to give a little bit of leanacny about the dating site only its a sausage fest. if a girl picks you man your golden so not taking that down kinda bad but it seems as tho you didnt feel a real click anyway so i wouldnt worry about this guy.
2006-09-05 15:07:43 · answer #5 · answered by gsschulte 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ditch him. He's being overly possessive already and he's being a drama queen.
He stood you up for dinner and then gave you a lame excuse? Pffft!!! That's just a little preview of the future you could have with this guy. Avoid it.
2006-09-05 15:14:30 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on many factors in your situation. If I were you, I won't continue to date him. I can't imagine how can anyone forget a dinner appointment especially your occasion. It's clear that he doesnt care about you... can you picture when you get serious with this guy?
I would move on with your life. There are plenty of fishes in the ocean!
2006-09-05 15:09:47 · answer #7 · answered by tacojrlazydays2006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 23:42:11 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, definite red flag. Any guy that has the guts to stand you up isn't worth your time. Afterall, he's already proven you aren't worth his time.
As for you being on the dating website, it's a free country.
2006-09-05 15:06:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do think that this is a massive red flag. the beginnning of a relationship should be smooth sailing. i have been with my partner for 5 and half years and it gets tougher. i think that it would be better to stop seeing this guy and start afresh with someone new before you get too attached to him. good luck.
2006-09-05 15:06:40 · answer #10 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋