Family & Relationships - 5 September 2006

I have been married for just over 4 years now and I have 3 kids - 2 being from my wifes previous relationship.

I am currently in the USAF but have decided that this isnt what I wanted to do because I just sit at a desk and want to cross over to the Army as Military Police. My wife is against it and says that I am only thinking about myself and that if I do it she is leaving to go back to Canada (thats where I met her).
I have wanted to be a police officer since I was young and the dream of it still follows me. I have been approved by the military to do what I want but I want to do it without loosing my family.

I understand she is worried because I am putting myself in more danger with the career choice but do yall think with the circumstances I have provided that I in the wrong or my wife.

I also planned on after the military becoming a civilian cop but just learned that she is against that as well.
It comes down to I have to be happy in my personal life or career life

2006-09-05 18:58:22 · 18 answers · asked by Goober 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Or do you have another reason in mind

2006-09-05 18:58:22 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went drunk to my friend's workplace (i know it's wrong). She obviously didn't like it.
How should I apologize to her?

2006-09-05 18:54:46 · 23 answers · asked by nycdude_usa 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 18:53:56 · 10 answers · asked by Jon Boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

she says were moving too fast i dont think so other ppl say that she mit have moved on but when we were toghether she hasnt given me any reason to believe otherwise. she still calls me alot so i guess that give me hope but she has this guy friend "j" theyre going places and stuff and she treats me differently now. i know were not together but she said we would b together forever . we talked about marriage and kids and everything . why the sudden change of heart she told me we would work out she made me believe we would work out. i wish if i knew she had someone else she would jus tell me she found a new guy so i can move on and not go thru all theses changes ya know? dont make me believe were going to get back together when u know were not

2006-09-05 18:53:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf was playing around and used baby oil to slide one of her rings over my soft penis, but now we cant get it back off. When she tries to remove it, I start to get hard and its very painful because its pinching my penis. Will the doctor have to cut the ring off?

2006-09-05 18:51:36 · 11 answers · asked by rob 1 in Singles & Dating

i dont know what it goes on so im just doing anything

2006-09-05 18:51:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had all of this anger inside with no release, I write songs and everything. For some reason that doesn't work. No one has ever given me a reason to "let it all out." I work in a place were I have to deal with balligerent drunk bums. I REALLY want to release it on them, but I am worried about losing my job and my control, I do not want to lose ALL control and accidently kill someone. What do I do? (no anger management)

2006-09-05 18:50:48 · 13 answers · asked by goode_times_die 4 in Singles & Dating

I was at my grandma's place watching TV and drinking moonshine and talking about Jesus and whatnot. She was in her panties and a tank top with not bra. Hey, her house, her rules. As she was telling me how proud she was of me, a cooter lip rolled out of the side of her panties and some of her labia. I didn't want to be rude so I let it go and just watched tv. I looked over and she was asleep. Her lip was hanging out and some flies were coming in the house. Its so awkward now! Should I have said something?

2006-09-05 18:50:41 · 9 answers · asked by General Genitals 1 in Family

Do you need to be 18?

2006-09-05 18:50:37 · 6 answers · asked by tomakewat? 1 in Singles & Dating

iIve been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years and the sex just sucks. I have never had an orgasm during sex. Ive never been with anyone but him and I feel like its never going to get better but I dont want to break up with him to see if someone better because then Ill lose him .....

2006-09-05 18:50:21 · 13 answers · asked by Kaleigh 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 18:49:35 · 6 answers · asked by anonymoususer987876 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's really a nice guy, just something of a social misfit.

2006-09-05 18:49:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-05 18:49:24 · 15 answers · asked by Alley Marie Gracelynne 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

if you truely love somebody,, do you fight till death to show them if they are having 2nd thoughts after a year and keep fighting till they have made it verry clear they dont want to be with you. or do you jus not fight. and let them go peacifully. and hope they come to there siences and come back. if so what if you are so scared if you dont fight. that they wont miss you and they will move on in life with out you. but you know this wont make them happy, he is the love of my life. i cant jus watch him walk away. and let him go. i did once. and for the month we were broken up. i was in depreation. then we deciede we belong together. what do i do... i love this man more then life. and please nonething negative. i cant take anymore negativity.

2006-09-05 18:49:12 · 6 answers · asked by amber d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had a crush on this guy for about 2years now & i can't get over him. He knows i like him but i doubt he has any feelings for me but everytime i see him i wish we were together what should i do?

2006-09-05 18:47:01 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Husband is a Liar and had Hypnotherapy which has failed. Thankyou All for your Answers I will Get Out! Thanks so much! xx

2006-09-05 18:45:31 · 7 answers · asked by maria t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-05 18:44:56 · 26 answers · asked by idntknow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

In other words, how many of you can just have sex and never want to see the other person again?

2006-09-05 18:44:05 · 19 answers · asked by strong and soft 3 in Singles & Dating

How long should I wait to ask her out. we were on the same swim team last year as well she would talk to me and say things hope you do good on your next race or would crack little jokes does she like me

2006-09-05 18:43:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't like when others tease me and also i dont like 2 tease others

2006-09-05 18:43:19 · 14 answers · asked by ashwini_varaskar 1 in Friends

I just met an amazing women like 2 days ago, she is smart, funny, and f.u.c.k.i.n.g hot, basically she is the women i've been waiting for my whole life. I've never felt this strong about someone before, and i know that a lot of ppl say that love comes slow, so my question is to the current lovers out there. Was ya crazy about the person your with now when you had pretty much just started to get to know them, or did you like them and then the love grew stonger as time went on?

2006-09-05 18:42:27 · 29 answers · asked by josh44629 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 18:40:50 · 20 answers · asked by Jon Boy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-05 18:40:43 · 18 answers · asked by tomakewat? 1 in Singles & Dating

be 4 u get marryed to her she all loved when u marryed her she becomes her mom thinking she can tell u what to do dies her hair like her mom. ***** and mone all the time . be 4 we got marryed she was sweet do anything i ask her to do now i ask her to do something she gets piss and all hell breaks out what to do

2006-09-05 18:40:26 · 6 answers · asked by reaper21077 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Please give me your opioins as many as you can and reply fast as this is part of my debate....please help

2006-09-05 18:40:08 · 20 answers · asked by Zubair T 1 in Family

2006-09-05 18:40:02 · 19 answers · asked by merlin 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-05 18:37:58 · 28 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many of you , if you somehow magically could have had other parents, would choose to do so? Do you love your parents or do you wish you had had parents other than the ones you have? How many are happy w/the parents they had vs. how many wish they had other parents? :-) or :-(

2006-09-05 18:37:43 · 18 answers · asked by jkmb39 2 in Family

I'm really confused. I have met a boy and we made friends, we study and also participate in extra things together... well, with time we have been very close, I started to like him, in the beggining i thought i wouldnt have a chance with him but suddenly and I started to notice some attitudes from him that make me think he likes me (I catch him looking at me, sometimes looking for me, lots of eye contact, he seats besides me whenever he can) and also he invited me to share his activities (and joined mine).. but I dont know why, when one day we are very close, the next one he is completely cold. Sometimes we have spend a nice time together but when in the night i find him in the msn, he doesn't chat with me.. or we spend hours speaking personally but when there is people around he goes and doesn't say goodbye at all. Maybe he is trying to seem "hard to catch", because I dont show so much interest in him (as lot of girls do with him cause he is cute). Or maybe.. he's just playing with me.

2006-09-05 18:37:16 · 8 answers · asked by Milena 1 in Singles & Dating