In other words, how many of you can just have sex and never want to see the other person again?
2006-09-05 18:44:05 · 19 answers · asked by strong and soft 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At one time I was capable of that. I was much, much younger. Now I don't see the point of one night flings. I'm happily married and we have a nice combination of lust and love. That is way better than sex with someone you don't care about seeing ever again.
2006-09-05 18:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by Amelia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With out love it is just SEX and just sex gets to the point that is becomes very boring . Yet making love with all of the wonderful emotions it comes with stays exciting , and makes you want to explore new things . So I would prefer to have a love making session than a sexual relationship . Heck if it is just sex you are after get a good magizine and do it yourself . You at least wouldnt get something that ajax and a brillo pad wouldnt scrub off lol /
2006-09-05 18:48:15 · answer #2 · answered by i_wanna_be_your_babygirl_tonite2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really cant see myself having a sexual relationship with someone i didnt love. I dont think i'd feel good about myself if i did something like that so there for i'm not going to.
However i do think you need more than just love to have sex... a little lust wouldnt hurt.
2006-09-05 18:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by Beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real sexual relationship without love is like a Peanut butter and jelly sandwich without bread, with the same person it can only get stronger with time but a one night bang could be over so fast, you wonder what happened!
2006-09-05 18:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Michael 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Way! I need Love to have a Passionate Relationship. But it must Grow first. No one night stands or anything like that. Real Loving relationships start off slowly and getting to know eachother first!
2006-09-05 18:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by maria t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can, few preferr it but that's nothing to do with Lust vs Love. All people need Love and despite what they tell you all of us have Lust that needs to be fulfilled.
2006-09-05 18:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by W0LF 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 19 and male, and i need love. sex for me isnt at all interesting if in not in love wth the girl.
i mean it just doesnt feel right when you are with a girl and you arent in love with her.
love relationships are a hell of alot better then sexual relationships, you get alot more out of love.
2006-09-05 18:47:10 · answer #7 · answered by stwistedmate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel disgusted even to hold hands or kiss with someone I didn't love. What's more to have sex with them..i die of sickness ok! Sex is just not physical thing that we do, it has got to come from inside.
2006-09-05 18:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by betty boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both. That's because if I did just want to have sex, if the sex was really great I would probably delude myself and try to turn it into a relationship. (LOL!) So this way, if it's not both, then it's just NOT.
2006-09-05 18:47:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well really what is love, so most would say lust. I would say that any guy can say that he does not need love unless he thumps the bible or something like that.
2006-09-05 18:45:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋