Any ideas on how to spice up a marriage?

Answer 1

Booty sex.

Answer 2

I have heard so much about this topic, and most people respond by focusing on romance. For example, providing a surprise intimate dinner by candlelight, a weekend away, etc. All this is important.
However I believe that when a marraige is taking a toll or in need, there may be an underlying problem.

My idea is to first seek out what that might be and then do something fun to spice it up. Good, solid, caring and loving dialogue so that the couple understands one another is the best medicine for bonding.

Answer 3

oooh the marriage is getting boring?

Buy gifts. Special heart thought gifts....with specific meaning.
Role play a few of each others fantasies
Stay active
Change up your normal routine, ie don't do the habitual thing every night
Do something different
Go on a real date once a week, as if you really were dating again....that's more than likely why you got together in the first place.

Oh and make sure both parties are working and understand the time together is special. If one is working and one is not, there is bound to be issues about not seeing the other enough.

Answer 4

Do something new!!! Change your looks, try things you have never tried before, go on a little vacation, go on a picnic and talk! If you need help in opening up, play a game that will get you both to be open and intimate

In the bedroom:
Lots of foreplay, use toys and experiment, guys love using toys on a woman, thats the fun of sex is experimenting, and be open to new ideas, you may think it's something you won't like, but in the end it may surprise you.

Try all variations and see what stimulates you most.

You need to be creative to avoid sexual boredom. Try a new location, rent a hotel room, experiment with new positions, buy new lingerie, rent a sexy video, try a hot bath, candles and a massage. Cast your inhibitions to the wind. And then get busy!

Answer 5

Make up CREATIVE role playing ideas. Try marriage exercises, play board games with other couples, go places you have never gone before...do things together you have never done before, stay up and have deep talks through the night. Also, have fun together as if you guys just met and are in college dont let the fact that you guys carry the ''marriage'' label slow you guys down...dont let that overpower the fact that you guys are capable of being friends too!!! HAVE FUN TOGETHER be young, be spontaneous and outgoing, be rebels, break rules here and there for eachother...work could wait one day would if something happens to your spouse the next day...CHERISH the time the two of you have together more than ever! It helps. Trust me. Good luck :)

Answer 6

Any change from the ordinary is good, that feeling that you need additional seasoning is stagnation and habbit settling in. The best changes are ones you both grow through. Take a class togather, learn to dance or cook or fence with your spouse. Avoid spice that includes possible perminant reprecussions, broken bones, venerial diseases, Lawsuits. They're too spicy for any marriage.

Answer 7

the best thing on how to spice up a marriage,is always be willing to try differnt things.try doing candle light dinners and always tell your husband what you like about him,what turns you on to him.and let him do the same thing. please be willing to be very sexual when it comes down to the bedroom. go dancing,and to the movies,have a surprise pincinc.do things that you know both of you loves. and i promise you,there will be nothing but spice and a happy and blessed marriage.GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

Go out on dates, just like you did at the beginning of the relationship. Try to have a date night like once a week. And try new things. Or, you can enroll in something you can do together, for example, take dance lessons.

Answer 9

Lock the TV controls and hide the remote control. Have a romantic candlelit dinner in the nude. Awesome food and great wine and a whole bunch of fun. The best part is the dessert!!

Answer 10

Do things that you used to do before you got married which also created the sparks at the beginning and always make time for yourselves only. Happy Marriage to you!!

Answer 11

Have your lover lay on his tummy. Lay on your tummy as well beside him. Take his hand (palm side up) and place it under you pussy and commence to humping the hell out of it or gently moving around on it (whatever you prefer). I think you'll get more of a response from him with the latter of the two. Moaning is definitely a turn on. It will make you *** so fast simply from the thrill of masturbating next to him knowing that you are using his hand. It may even turn him on enough that he wakes up and want to ravish you for being so kinky.