iIve been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years and the sex just sucks. I have never had an orgasm during sex. Ive never been with anyone but him and I feel like its never going to get better but I dont want to break up with him to see if someone better because then Ill lose him .....
2006-09-05 18:50:21 · 13 answers · asked by Kaleigh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what does he have, a 1 inch DlCK???
2006-09-05 18:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by pitbullcopper2004 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do something new!!! Change your looks, try things you have never tried before, go on a little vacation, go on a picnic and talk! If you need help in opening up, play a game that will get you both to be open and intimate.
In the bedroom:
Lots of foreplay, use toys and experiment, guys love using toys on a woman, thats the fun of sex is experimenting, and be open to new ideas, you may think it's something you won't like, but in the end it may surprise you.
Try all variations and see what stimulates you most.
You need to be creative to avoid sexual boredom. Try a new location, rent a hotel room, experiment with new positions, buy new lingerie, rent a sexy video, try a hot bath, candles and a massage. Cast your inhibitions to the wind. And then get busy!
2006-09-05 18:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U don't need to spice up ur sex life with one who can't give u orgasm, but u need to get rid of him & find someone who could make ur life a living orgasm.
2006-09-05 18:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Kegels.
Its a start at least.
Other than that be honest with yourself, and do what feels right, not acting out of fear or other restrictions. All too often sex is about power and mind games... Release yourself to be be yourself and relax...
2006-09-05 18:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by Airen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Maybe it is your cottage cheese thighs.
How about you put up a picture of yourself since you
are so easy to judge others. By the way. I work out
six days a week my legs are pure muscle. Your sex
life is dull because you are dull, he's probably cheating
on you too.
2006-09-05 20:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by sac_baby_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find some discreet partners and experiment. you may not know what else is out there. You might someone who can make you *** easily. You don't have to dump or leave your bf. There are plenty of guys out there who will hook up with ya and teach ya some new things. Then at least you can take it back to your bf and tell him what to do.
Just a thought...........
2006-09-05 18:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by RangerBob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try getting some nice under garments, also if you have never had an orgasm you really need to talk to him about it.
2006-09-05 18:53:24 · answer #7 · answered by Cassandra S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dose he lick your icing ?,if not get him down there & tell him when he hits the spot u like.
2 1/2 years ?, u poor girl.
If he does it right yuor gonna explode !!
2006-09-05 19:26:32 · answer #8 · answered by aussie fallen angel 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bring in a g/f have a 3 way and u will have more then one.
2006-09-05 18:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by stevens_monroe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
suggest things that u think would allow u to be satisfied with him????? ask for any and everything u would like or like to try.....
2006-09-05 18:53:28 · answer #10 · answered by blkhawk51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋