she says were moving too fast i dont think so other ppl say that she mit have moved on but when we were toghether she hasnt given me any reason to believe otherwise. she still calls me alot so i guess that give me hope but she has this guy friend "j" theyre going places and stuff and she treats me differently now. i know were not together but she said we would b together forever . we talked about marriage and kids and everything . why the sudden change of heart she told me we would work out she made me believe we would work out. i wish if i knew she had someone else she would jus tell me she found a new guy so i can move on and not go thru all theses changes ya know? dont make me believe were going to get back together when u know were not
2006-09-05 18:53:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
she seem like she is still searching for her own identity. its hard to give yourself to someone, if you don't who you are. self-identity is link with goals, dreams, a personal set of values & morals & much more. its has effect on self-worth too. hopefully this may help you to understand her better. however if she looking to you to fuifill the above, she won't find it. got to find it in herself. if she is really seeing someone else, you are not oblige to stay faithful. hope this is helpful, peace, man
2006-09-05 19:05:01 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is easy, you need to talk with her and ask her where you two are at. I know it might be hard to do that, but you have too. This is what is best for the both of you. You do not want to be hanging on for along time when she is out with other guys. Tell her how you feel and ask her how she feels and what happens from there happens.
2006-09-05 18:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is hard to do for many men and women, and she seems to be one of them. It's been hard for me to do. The odds are that she is romantically "busy" with this other guy, and perhaps doesn't have the courage to tell you straight out. Just think of how many other great women there are in the world!!! There are millions upon millions of them. Keep looking until you find one who only loves you for yourself.
2006-09-05 19:09:56 · answer #3 · answered by In Honor of Moja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's most likely romantically involved with the other guy and keeping you around just incase it doesn't work out with him. Ditch her and tell her like it is..you don't need to put up with mind games.
2006-09-05 18:58:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry dude just dump the girl and move on she has found someone else.
2006-09-05 18:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it do u have to be hit over the head, she has moved on and found her someone else you need to do the same, she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
2006-09-05 18:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by felicia_octwoods 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww.. i feel for ya. My boyfriend did the same thing. told me we would be together forever.. then one day.. he said we needed a break or break up.. never got the break. just the break up.. anyway.. good luck with every thing!
2006-09-05 19:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by an14341991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do her best friend. Even if she doesnt like you, it will still piss her off. Do whatever you can to hurt her like that because she messing around with you.
2006-09-05 19:06:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
space is a nice term for break up. much like laid off means fired.
2006-09-05 18:55:32 · answer #9 · answered by Pistol Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing you big time. Make a clean break from her and don't be her booty call.
2006-09-05 18:56:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋