I just met an amazing women like 2 days ago, she is smart, funny, and f.u.c.k.i.n.g hot, basically she is the women i've been waiting for my whole life. I've never felt this strong about someone before, and i know that a lot of ppl say that love comes slow, so my question is to the current lovers out there. Was ya crazy about the person your with now when you had pretty much just started to get to know them, or did you like them and then the love grew stonger as time went on?
2006-09-05 18:42:27 · 29 answers · asked by josh44629 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is Crazy S.h.i.t.e. But it has to be because of how fantastic it is!! I have been head over heals with my man since the day I saw him! 7 months ago (Maybe not as long as some). The love at the start was more infactuation, soul attraction, passion and lust and now it is all of those things, but closer. If that makes any sense. Now there is no doubts or jealousies or uncertainties, it's just......right!! "Love is one soul's recognition of it's counterpart in another." It just fits.
Congrats on your love and don't hold back for a second, enjoy every minute!
2006-09-05 18:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first, I like your question. Its cute. Anyway, with all of my ex's, no I have never experienced the ''love at first sight'' thing but with my current boyfriend it was that way. (NO i am NOT saying that because hes my ''current'' bf lol...I hadnt had this feeling with my ex's and I know this one wont be an ex) We had known eachother for years and talked a few times but never enough to get to know eachother. We were young. But when we hooked up a while ago when we were older, it felt like we loved eachother right away...automatically which is weird because love DOES form over time. But from the time from when we FIRST meant all the way to the time where we got together, we werent connected at all or even thinking about eachother. But like I said, when we hooked up for sure and for good, it felt like it was SO right and SO meant to be the love was already there like it came from somewhere else and we didnt understand how or why we just knew what the intense feeling was. So yes, maybe this is the one for you...maybe shes your soulmate and thats why you began to love her from the start...because your souls connect :) ... I hope everything works out for the two of you.
2006-09-05 18:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind honey, that she is probably putting her best foot forward and what you find attractive now, isn't going to be so damn hot five years down the road. Take the time to get to really know her before you jump in with both feet. I married a hottie and at first, he irritated the hell out of me. He was demanding, arrogant and had this sense of humor that was sometimes out of line. But he was persistant, and the more I got to know him, the more things I liked about him. We've been married 17 1/2 years...all because we took the time to really get to know each other. Good luck!
2006-09-05 18:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just met my boyfriend not even a month ago and it was love at first sight for both of us. I have never ever loved someone this much in my life not even my ex of over 3 years. So love can happen in a second. I honestly believe that now, When you find right one you just know.
2006-09-05 19:15:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The real way to know if the Person that you are attracted to is not by the way that they look. its who they are from with in them and no I do not mean from whats underneith the clothing Imean for who they really are emotionally and etc.
Even though the Person may look good on the outside she could easly be a real ***** to you at one point or another.
The way that I knew is that I started to talk to her and got to know her slowly day by day min by min etc and I let the nature of it all flow as it may another way to put it I let the leaves fall where they may thus I did not rush in to anything and I did not do anything that would have made her feel uncomfrtable in any way when she was ready to go farther in to the relationship from friend to bf and gf then farther then that to as far as it went I let her decide when she was ready thus I treated her with respect etc basicaly the way that a Woman should be treated and I got the same respect - meaning that I show her all the positive emotions she returned it to me aka treat the person the way that you want to be treated and I made sure that she was safe and when the time came that she wannted to go farther then we were in the relationship She let me know thus at the same point I told her how I honestly & truthfully felt about her in what were not sexual at all they were all positive in every way and she saw that I ment it from the way that I said it and saw of what I said was sonsire and true and it went on from that point.
2006-09-05 19:06:55 · answer #5 · answered by Peace Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly...Mine was like love at first site...we met Feb 9, 2006, got together officially on Valentine's Day. We haven't been apart one night since then at all. He was having to move out of his apartment the end of Feb, and he moved into my apt with me. My lease was supposed to run out in May, but we started looking for a place for both of us, and we got a place in April, and he just paid my rent for the last month in my old apt, and we've been happily together ever since...and now we're even talking about marriage...see how that goes next:)
2006-09-05 18:45:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I met my Husband I was crazy about him and as time went by I started to fall in love with him more and more each day. It wasn't love at first sight though.
2006-09-05 18:46:26 · answer #7 · answered by Yahoo Anwers 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had me hooked at the very beginning .... and its still very much the same way to this day.
Hugs from a Loving Mom to a Brillant, as well as beautiful 8 year old Jared and Our Angel, Zachary (taken to soon but who will always remain in our heart) ~ Mel
2006-09-05 18:44:37 · answer #8 · answered by jaredsmommy2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love grows immediately after we met for the first time. This sounds a bit too rush but i'm getting comfortable with it.
2006-09-05 23:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by dolphin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to wait to see if you really like her.I mean my first love and the only really love I will have was'nt love at first sight.You're feeling so strong bcoz you want to know that person.Spend lots of time with her.Only then when you get used to her you can tell
2006-09-05 18:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by steve l 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋