Family & Relationships - 4 September 2006

Due to financial reasons my husbands ex-wife has let their children come live with us and we are enrolling them in school. They had joint custody with her being the custodial parent and him paying support. I realize we can't just stop paying child support now that they will be living with us... I know their has to be something in writing and filed with the court. Does anyone have a suggestion as to the way we can go about the filing of the paperwork without it costing us an arm and leg? Has anyone out there used a paralegal for this type of thing?She initiated this so I don't forsee her fighting it ...

2006-09-04 18:04:34 · 5 answers · asked by melinda 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-04 18:04:13 · 25 answers · asked by KryBaby 4 in Family

One of my girlfriends friends thinks I am messed up in the head because I have her call me sir or master. I don't think I am because first off, I have the Y chromosome and she doesn't. Secondly, I'm training her to be a good submissive wife this way. Third, I am the man in the relationship and have far superior emotional handling skills than she does and she needs a man to make her decisions for her. Besides its no different than a man calling his girl "princess". Am I wrong here??

2006-09-04 18:04:07 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been working out at my gym for awhile, usually after work during the peak hours from 5-6:30pm. There aren't that many girls that work out at the gym, but the ones I do see on a daily basis are quite attractive. There is one girl that usually works out around the same time that I do. I want to talk to her and ask her out, but it's pretty intimidating to approach a girl at a gym. It seems like most people just want to finish their workout, go home, eat dinner, and relax. Can anyone help me out who have had experience in this area? Thanks

2006-09-04 18:03:09 · 14 answers · asked by llhs2001 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 18:00:14 · 5 answers · asked by Silver Tortoise 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 17:59:37 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 17:59:34 · 10 answers · asked by ladonna t 1 in Singles & Dating

1) Which is sexiest blonde, burnette, or red head? 2) What is the sexiest thing a women has ever done for you?

2006-09-04 17:58:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Any Takers lol!

2006-09-04 17:57:39 · 18 answers · asked by Wiseguy 3 in Friends

2006-09-04 17:57:16 · 13 answers · asked by flying_babyb 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 17:56:27 · 21 answers · asked by Sixth_Sense 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My buddy always get played or diss by women what can he do to improve himself. He's 33 and love's chicks under 17 when he talks women he's age group they look at his height 4'10" so that scews everything up. Also female love to play mind games with him he does'nt suspect anything he just loves the attention. Is there any suggestions for him?

2006-09-04 17:54:57 · 6 answers · asked by ken31pop 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I just had are first child 2 months ago. She is a handful, and although we are absolutely delighted with her presense- it puts such a strain on our relationship. I just recently started to truly vent to him about the problems in our marriage. And he just blames the new stress of our daughter. It truly isn't. I feel like the lack of intimacy in our home is my fault because, in the past I never brought my worries up. and now I feel like I can't take it anymore and I find myself having breakdowns and screaming at him- then feeling so much remorse that I have compiled every single emotion I have onto him at once. Nothing seems to sink in and I recently told him that maybe we should have a trial seperation. We decided against it and I thought we understood eachother but, now that we are back to our normal lives I feel like we are back at square one and not making any progress. He shows absolutely NO interest in me physically or mentally. I feel like I am living with a friend.

2006-09-04 17:54:21 · 22 answers · asked by chrisbee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a compulsive cheater. Does that make me a bad person or is it soem kind of illness?

2006-09-04 17:53:12 · 25 answers · asked by princess_kimnus 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she is offering dirty video of her daughter. i dont know where but authorities need to be contacted.

2006-09-04 17:53:12 · 10 answers · asked by psychpath64 3 in Family

I am seeking close relationships with woman. Not casual but not intimate ... But have frank open conversations. Any women out there that have a a relationship like the one I described ?

2006-09-04 17:52:46 · 23 answers · asked by mark 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i think i am in love wit h this guy and he said to me he really doesnt know me to well so how long?

2006-09-04 17:51:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do I envy the happyuness when sumone is getting married

2006-09-04 17:51:58 · 9 answers · asked by Remedy 1 in Weddings

ok here we go. i've liked this guy for ever.. then he goes and hooks up with this girl. they go out for a week and we're back to square one. then i started talking to his best friend. we're now going out and i can't help but still have feelings for the first guy. what to do..

2006-09-04 17:51:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 17:51:29 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Going on a first date to first have a nice meal and then catch a movie and then catch another movie at one of our houses....anyways....

Any suggestions: How do you feel about getting a flower or flowers on a first date? If yes, a single flower or more? If yes, what kinda flowers

Let me know if you need any other information

Age 21 both seeking a long term

2006-09-04 17:51:11 · 7 answers · asked by Summertime 2 in Singles & Dating

If you are divorced how long does it take to get rid of the strong feelings for the other person,I have a boyfriend that is divorced and his ex still wants him back but she has screwed around on him and yelled so much he said he was not going do go thru that but he is always wanting to go over and help her with yard work and stuff .he is a slut and would do anything to get him back she has even went so far as to force her way on him and he lets her do what ever cause he said that he is not scared of her but he gives in to her and goe over to help out she has even called him badnames and he will not stand up to her .I want to kick her butt , He keeps protecting her , she don't have a car due to getting caught with drugs and she rides her bike over to where he lives just to see if we are there ,she calls all hours of the night. he will not let me turn her in to the police , what should i do . serious replys only

2006-09-04 17:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by dee d 3 in Marriage & Divorce

After several failed, messy relationships: parental, husband, boy friend of 6.5 years, betrayal by stepfather, dad walks away from kids and grand kids, bestfriend and mother dies young, care for her mother who dies 4 years later of Alzheimers. Having to be the one to reinforce the DNR orders on both of them, lost my other grandmother and feel like a 35 year old orphan. I don't trust men because of so much betrayal and abandonment. I want to be open for love, but have a steel reinforced band around my heart that leaves me numb. Any advice would be very appreciated!

2006-09-04 17:50:55 · 9 answers · asked by queen of broken heart 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 17:49:59 · 5 answers · asked by Raju 1 in Friends

my girlfriend of 7 years just left me. She says she doesnt know who she is anymore and needs to find herself. its been 2 weeks and she is already talking about an overseas trip with her friends which i previously said she shouldnt do because we just bought a house and moving back down into town with her friends. Every other issue she had with me i have worked on and she even acknowledges my progress but just has nothing left to give to our relationship. I have backed right off and given her space like she wants. Is it possible she will clear her head in time and try and resolve things with me. I just cant believe that our relationship could end so fast with little if any warning?

2006-09-04 17:49:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, I have a friend and I've run out of things to talk to her with, literally, we've exhausted almost every conversation topic, need lots of ideas plz. Thanks!

2006-09-04 17:49:32 · 16 answers · asked by Pie Man 5 in Friends

People keep asking me why I don't have or want a boyfrined, I tell them because I am not ready for the drama of a relationship and quite honestly I am not ready to deal with the responsibility and emotions that come along with having sex; Worrying about std's, pregnancy and all that. Some people even question if im gay or something...just because I never had a boyfriend, but if that's the case I never had a dam girlfriend either. Im not gay, I love men, it's just that I want to wait untill I am truly ready and I want to be married. I can admit that im not ready for that step in life yet..im focused on going to school and reaching my goals before I do anything? What do you guys think? Am I being snooty and stuk up for feeling this way?

2006-09-04 17:48:36 · 31 answers · asked by StormyRain 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-04 17:48:24 · 4 answers · asked by justme_rai 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend and me dated for 5 yrs, and we just latley have become friends. The man i'm seeing now is a really great guy and we have been seeing each other for about 2 months now. my ex is the father of my kid and is just now starting to get into my sons life. My boyfriend now is fine with that, but he thinks that my ex is going to try and use my son to eather get back with me, or use me. Could they just become friends?

2006-09-04 17:47:56 · 19 answers · asked by Theresa A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-04 17:47:50 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends