ok here we go. i've liked this guy for ever.. then he goes and hooks up with this girl. they go out for a week and we're back to square one. then i started talking to his best friend. we're now going out and i can't help but still have feelings for the first guy. what to do..
2006-09-04 17:51:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-04 17:54:23 · update #1
I was in a simulair situation, and still am... Trust me, do NOT go out with his best friend.. Because, time goes on very quickly and if you stay with guy # 2 then you will have to live the rest of your life knowing that you will always have to see guy #1 that you longed for (and will always long for) as he will be a part of your life too. It really really hurts and messes you up!!! I am talking 8 years later here.
2006-09-04 18:00:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're not in as serious crap as you think....this is absolutely NORMAL for you to go through. If you really don't want to be with guy #2, then break up with him. Give the other guy time to come around.
He may NOT want to be with you now that you've dated his best friend, and if that's the case, let it go, be single awhile, and I assure you that you will meet someone else before you know it that you'll like more than either one of these guys!
That's the great thing about being young. You bounce back, you can fall for many different people before finding "the one". Just remember, you don't owe either one of these guys anything! Just be honest with yourself, be honest with them, then deal with the outcome, and DON'T make yourself feel guilty!
Enjoy dating, and don't settle for anything!
2006-09-04 17:56:25 · answer #2 · answered by Amy N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Dear , How serious is GOING OUT. It's not unusual to have feelings for more than one guy. These feelings may be tender or may just be lusty but you do have to clarify them. Look at your situation and try to resolve it. How do they feel? Who could you live without. Best friends dont usually share well on matters of love.
2006-09-04 18:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by i2lovehiei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that the best thing to do is tell the best friend that it isn't what you want at this time. Then go to the guy you have feelings for and tell him actually how you feel.Bet you he will come around to you if he knows how you feel.Cant just sit by and watch. Cause if you do he will just pass you by.
2006-09-04 17:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by big_guy0815 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's what i think you should do: Forget about the other guy. concentrate completely on the relationship at hand.
You'll see... you won't even remember the other guy within an year. you'll be happy.
Life isn't perfect, but we gotta make the best of it... K?
2006-09-04 18:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by JD Da Man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you trust hime now without feeling like it could happen again. Also if the guy you are dating now is not someone you see yourself with in the future .. is it fair to him ..
2006-09-04 17:55:31 · answer #6 · answered by mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
which guy do you like better? which one could u see urself with? and which one is sexeier? ask urself these q's and if u still dont kno email me back i'll help as best i can most my friends come to me with their problems so im very experienced good luck!
2006-09-04 17:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i dont think he did something so serious that u should feel bad. He just met someone who has more feelings, and shares the same likings...thats all. U were just simply not meant for him.
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2016-12-18 05:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on from the first guy and date the second one.... if you are young and aren't married and don't have any STD's or kids with the first guy..... it's alright.... if you have kids it 's a whole different story though.... your night of painting the town are over.....
2006-09-04 17:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by pro_steering_wheel_holder 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋