my ex boyfriend and me dated for 5 yrs, and we just latley have become friends. The man i'm seeing now is a really great guy and we have been seeing each other for about 2 months now. my ex is the father of my kid and is just now starting to get into my sons life. My boyfriend now is fine with that, but he thinks that my ex is going to try and use my son to eather get back with me, or use me. Could they just become friends?
2006-09-04 17:47:56 · 19 answers · asked by Theresa A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No....
2006-09-04 18:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is your ex a vengeful or jealous guy? My ex of 10 years got married and I am friends with his wife. In fact, I am friends with her now and just tolerate him.
Best thing would be to talk with your ex. There is no reason your son should not have a good relationship with his father and any man you choice to be with...
2006-09-05 00:54:18 · answer #2 · answered by mariee64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see it likely that they'll become friends, but they can get to respect each other, and your bf must accept that your ex is the father of your kid and is a big part of your kid's life, not just the money provider.
2006-09-05 00:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Roberto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this situation they can't try to away your son from your ex-boyfriend., be affectionate with your boyfriend., then you want to understand your boyfriend having very much affectionate with you don't loose with silly decisions live happy don't make a mistake in another time., Have nice life., Good day.
2006-09-05 00:52:11 · answer #4 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good thing for you and your son that your ex is friendly now but not good for your new boyfriend. I don't blame your new boyfriend and I doubt that he will ever feel totally secure... but he might be civil to your ex.
2006-09-05 00:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend that you let your bf take his time and let him see what your ex really wants. Then let him figure it out on his own. He has a right to be cautious of a man who wasnt in your sons life until now. I would jsut give it some time and see hwo things happen.
good luck dear!
2006-09-05 00:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by www.myspace.com/yourmomentofjen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if they did become friends it would be a weird situation..your new boyfriend should just deal with the fact that you have a child and a past with the ex
2006-09-05 00:50:30 · answer #7 · answered by yowww kelly clarkson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he needs to be secure with u and he doesent seem that secure. two months isnt a long time and time will tell.
u dont have to push the issue. if it was someone u were gonna marry the two need to be civil for the childs sake but by no means have to be friends.
2006-09-05 00:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by psychpath64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,don't even think about it.Ur ex & present boyfriends cannot become friends.What's the gurantee that ur ex will not use ur boyfriend to get to u?
2006-09-05 00:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by aditi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they could, but it's not such a good idea. Don't push it on either one.
Your husband doesn't want to be reminded of all those times when your ex was having fun with YOU in bed, and you were enjoying every minute of it!
2006-09-05 00:51:15 · answer #10 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible, but under the present circumstances somewhat doubtful. Once the situation has resolved itself a bit, so everybody understands who is what to whom, it could -- and hopefully will -- get better.
2006-09-05 00:53:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋