Why do I envy the happyuness when sumone is getting married
2006-09-04 17:51:58 · 9 answers · asked by Remedy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
cause your jealous that you arent married yet and you feel like your behind. Its like someone being jealous because your friend has a girlfriend and you don't. You want that happiness. You want to be the best.
2006-09-04 17:54:55 · answer #1 · answered by JO 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You envy the happiness because you have not yet found happiness inside yourself. You are lacking something, and angry that others have what you do not, rather than being happy for them. It's pretty normal. I'm sure that most of it have been through it at some point in time, but if you start thinking of the feelings of others and being happy for them, you will find that you will become more happy with yourself. Another thing that will boost your happiness is to do things for others. If you see a need that you can help with, help. It can be as simple as talking to a lonely elderly person or volunteering to help at nursing homes or charities. It doesn't take much effort, and the rewards are great. You might even find the love of your life while you are volunteering to help others, but your main focus should be on helping others if you really want to reap the rewards. The other will come naturally.
Love, Hope, & Peace,
Cal-el & Swissy
2006-09-05 03:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Prodigal Son 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of single women (or even non-married women in good relationships) experience "Wedding Envy" when people they know get married. It's perfectly normal, especially if you feel you are at the point in your live where you want to settle down. At best, it's feelings of "oh how wonderful - I want that!!" and at worst it's "what's wrong with me that *I* am not the one getting married.
Those feelings are not fun to deal with (went through it TWICE last year and had a small bout of it this year), but they are manageable. Be clear in your mind what you wish for the couple and what you wish for yourself, and the feelings will probably dissapate by the time the wedding is over.
2006-09-05 02:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get all drunk at the reception. Take over the toast for the Bride and Groom. Puke on the dance floor. Take a big chunk out of the wedding cake before they cut it together. Sleep with the best man. Steal the photographers bag of film. Slash the tire of the wedding couples limo. I'm sure after that you might feel a little less jealous.
2006-09-05 01:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everyone does...it's natural...
Although i don't envy the long ordeals. Just the happiness.
2006-09-05 00:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by Startoshadows 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's perfectly normal. Everybody does.
2006-09-05 00:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess you wish that it could be you someday. everyone feels a sense of envy. me too..it's normal/
2006-09-05 03:40:13 · answer #7 · answered by autumn lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get married, define the question...
2006-09-05 00:58:48 · answer #8 · answered by noise_tank711 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have set goals on yourself and they have achieved something you want to achieve
2006-09-05 00:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋