guy meets girl online. they start to chat so they can get to know each other.
they like each other, and decide to cyber-date until they can meet for real. but guy sometimes disappears without warning, solid explanation ("i was very busy"), or apology. girl doesn't want a play-by-play of guy's life, just a heads up, so she doesn't feel stood up.
within a 4 month period, the disappearing act happens 3 times. girl tells guy that she doesn't like it after each time.
by the fourth time it happens, girl leaves an IM for guy letting him know she's not interested. she learns that this time he disappeared because of a death in the immediate family. he apologized for the first time.
girl accepts the apology, but within a week, and another 4 or 5 day disappearance, girl sends an email explaining that his behavior affects her too negatively to believe anything real could come of this. she accuses him of cyber-dating others and calls him a "loser. let's just say guy wasn't happy.
2006-08-28
13:39:45
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nitsrek
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