Family & Relationships - 28 August 2006

I recently went on vacation with my husband's 3 sisters. One of them very opinionated, confused & lost in herself, finds faults in others and is quick to judge. I was the last person to be dropped off the day we drove home - during the 15 minute drive home she found it OK to complain about my personality flaws that were not mine but rather her own. (This is called projection.) . Hypocrisy #1: She said, "When you married our brother we opened our arms and accepted you." That was awsome to hear. She soon implied I also need to prove worthy of being married to her brother. This hurt me deeply. Hypocrisy #2: When I was invited to go on this vacation it was stated it was a vacation, as most would think it to be. My sister-in-law said I was invited as a favor for being married to her brother. I listened quietly. In 15 minutes her words and misconceptions destroyed my trust in her & no longer feel accepted. For those who have experienced this, I look forward to your answer!

2006-08-28 14:17:32 · 9 answers · asked by inhisgrace0072005 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If we went on a date, what would you want to do, and what should I wear?

2006-08-28 14:17:16 · 12 answers · asked by ASsundevils 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 7 years today,our only fight is about sex! He wants it all the time and I don't. We have 2 kids,one 4 year old who is hyper and needs my attention 24 hours a day and even wakes up 3 times a night! and a 7 year old with a syndrom thats puts alot of daily stress on me. Also my husband is gone out of town working all the time. I do everything with the kids and the house.When he comes home I am happy to see him but only because I can go to the grocery store without taking the kids!!! and at bedtime..i just wanna look at the back of my eyelids! He just can't seem to get why I am so tired,and why I am not wanting sex.

2006-08-28 14:17:00 · 20 answers · asked by spoiledsarah25 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-28 14:16:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think woman are hot but I just dont want to have sex with anyone. Its boring and woman to me are only good to look at and be friends with. Not gay I really dont understand why 2 guys would do each other. Are there others out there that would rather just not have hormones and be sex free like me?

2006-08-28 14:16:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

instead. she got knocked up & moved in with him-got pregnant on purpose. He bought a house in his mothers name & makes my friend pay 1,000 a month for mortgage. Is he using her 4 her money instead?

2006-08-28 14:16:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 14:16:02 · 5 answers · asked by tjoe1980 2 in Singles & Dating

I just moved to a diffrent state. And I am in a new school. Iv been wondering, how do you get a girlffirend d when you know NOBODY?

2006-08-28 14:15:54 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 14:15:35 · 16 answers · asked by dopey_tha_throwdest 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 14:15:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i want get know you guys and girls?

2006-08-28 14:15:14 · 4 answers · asked by cats12500910 1 in Friends

One time she had this guy follow her cuz she was to nice. I thought pretty girls are suppose to be all about mememememe. why can't she be like me, Pretty and mean. yet she's my best friend. She's pretty and nice but someday someone's going to take advantage of that.

2006-08-28 14:15:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on this guy that's a year older than me, and he's really cute so a lot of girls are interested in him. we've never really talked, but i'd like to start talking to him. he sits next to me in trig, and i want to slip him a note, but what should it say?! any sweet ideas?

2006-08-28 14:15:03 · 5 answers · asked by wooooo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it just me or is there alot of perverted men, young teeny boopers, and bitches that come on here?? Whats that about? Isnt there anyone normal around anymore?

2006-08-28 14:13:55 · 52 answers · asked by lolli_pop69_2001 3 in Singles & Dating

I have dated many girls from online dating sites and chat rooms and sometimes from work and other places. I have had nothing but a string of bad relationships and bad dates. I have had a few good ones here and there----but generally nothing but a few one night stands or friendships. How do I keep a woman interested in me for the long term? How do I get a long term relationship? How do get along with a female? Im an attractive man--i look like hugh grant. But I grow so frustrated with womens demands and high expectations. Any suggestions?

2006-08-28 14:13:29 · 12 answers · asked by usa_jcrew68 1 in Singles & Dating

How would you feel if a girl bought you flowers?

2006-08-28 14:13:16 · 16 answers · asked by loca_y_morena 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 14:11:38 · 18 answers · asked by Nick N 1 in Singles & Dating

But she's still hung up on her ex. Is this a love triangle or what. Ohhh,, I'm bi, she's not. he's into her but with me and she's not into him and for sure doesn't know my feelings for her

2006-08-28 14:11:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he's not hot but I think hes alright like hes not ugly but I think it could really work this time but I just dont want to lay my whole self out there because i dont want to get hurt again ecspeccially by him of all people

2006-08-28 14:10:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The guy know the girl and the girl told the guy she likes him and is looking for him..they haven't seen each other in over a year. The guy is 14 but is shy and won't answer her but will wait..

2006-08-28 14:10:41 · 7 answers · asked by Beckam 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, for a start I am still plating video games that's still fun but my life in my family is getting out of hand... I do some of the chores at home but still wasting my time playing video games...
I'm the second youngest in a family of seven and I am trying to live mostly as an individual but leaving most of the problems to the older ones is a complete waste of time...
So should I try and quit playing while I'm ahead and take more responsibilities in life as an advancement of my maturity or should I continue playing as much as I can before thinking of doing the responsibility role?

2006-08-28 14:09:19 · 9 answers · asked by Ace Striker 2 in Family

I wanted to know what will happen
Cuz i've been hurt inside & now i feel it turning to Rage & hate & sadness

2006-08-28 14:08:55 · 27 answers · asked by Yagami 6 in Singles & Dating

this state for 6 months to file for divorce. Can I file in the state we moved from or do I have to wait 5 months to file in the state we now live in?

2006-08-28 14:08:53 · 15 answers · asked by cupidstunt 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Stranded at work 3 towns over about 19 miles from home. Kids at home (well they are teens). We need to move out by tomorrow morning and have nowhere to go. Hurricane comes to town tomorrow. No money, no gas. He went to hustle up some money today and instead will pick me up 4 hours late and claims to have only made $5. Married 20 years with 5 kids. I have worked the whole time. He was a great Mr Mom but youngest is now a teenager and he still cant find steady work. What should I do? And How?????

2006-08-28 14:08:50 · 10 answers · asked by s b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-28 14:08:48 · 20 answers · asked by sarahmb08 1 in Singles & Dating

Gosh help me not hate my soon to be mother is law so much she is soooo nosey she can mot mind her own business and wants to come over uninvited what do I do I am still nice to her but I am getting overwhelmed and gonna explode

2006-08-28 14:08:11 · 18 answers · asked by tatum23 1 in Family

If it is real, how do you do it?

2006-08-28 14:08:02 · 2 answers · asked by kingsony69 1 in Friends

2006-08-28 14:07:55 · 25 answers · asked by celeste a 2 in Friends

2006-08-28 14:07:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is 21 years old and has a 15 year old gf, she use to do drugs, she was raped a lot by her moms bf, and she cheated on my friend, she dosent think sucking on some guy is cheating, she calls it making out, my friend got really hurt and he has tried to be just friends but he just couldnt leave her, he really loves her and wants to be with her, he wants to help her learn that she should stay with just one guy, i dont know how to keep him away from her, he needs to find someone his own age but i cant help him, i have told him to leave her and he says it is too hard, i really need ur help please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-08-28 14:06:46 · 23 answers · asked by vampire girl 1 in Singles & Dating