sex is dumb?

Question

I think woman are hot but I just dont want to have sex with anyone. Its boring and woman to me are only good to look at and be friends with. Not gay I really dont understand why 2 guys would do each other. Are there others out there that would rather just not have hormones and be sex free like me?

Answer 1

Yes there are many A-Sexual types out there that have no sex drive whatsoever. There isn't anything wrong with it either.

Answer 2

Sex is dumb you say. But it was sex that created you!
Someday, you will find that you will be ready to settle down and start a family, or just to have a partner for life.
Do you honestly think that you can go without sex your whole life????
If you feel this way, why don't you become a priest or a monk??? ( Even though they probably get more sex than the rest of us! haha)
I understand what you are saying. But I see it the other way! I have been married a very long time, and have had sex soooooooo many times, that it loses it's true meaning -"the showing of affection and incredible love to one person". At this stage in my life, sex has become an automatic response to getting into bed! The love and affection is there, but the excitement of raging hormones is not. It is like an alarm clock that goes off the same time every night, day, or evening! My husband works different shifts. When it becomes an expected thing, a thing taken for granted, a wifely duty, than it is no longer for me.
I am to the point, that I can live without it! I have tasted the good side, and the bad side, and now I am ready to stay on the neutral side.

Thanks for listening!

Answer 3

Nice comment and nicely worded. I think the problem with you and others that I've heard the same thing from- is that you can only see so many half naked girls walking around on the streets, television, everywhere. .. It almost makes you numb. No mystery anymore. It's like sex too easy to get to now (internet, television,down the street). No rush. People are not very clean anymore either. THAT is not sexy. If you are giving off a certain vibe by the way you dress, talk and act - you may have something the rest of us don't want. No matter how accepted or ready sex is, it's still a dangerous act if used improperly.

Answer 4

What's wrong with two people expressing their love for eachother. The only time sex is dumb is when the two people involved don't really love eachother and they're not married and oonly like each other for physical attraction. But when the people involved are commited to each other and deeply in love it's not dumb. No adays you only see people having sex for the wrong reasons so I can see where you're coming from

Answer 5

Actually I know someone who is just like you and is equally misunderstood. I think that you should have sex until you feel you are ready or in other words want to no matter what age that maybe. So go ahead and live your life whether you don't have sex till your 50 is your business.

Answer 6

I think you are ok. But if you still feel the same after 1 year there could be something wrong with you.
You are joking right.

Answer 7

Nope

Answer 8

you just have not found the one that lights your fire! I know how you feel, I am not to sexually excited lately either I would rather wait around and invest my time in someone who I want to be with and not just get it on with!

Answer 9

your name says it all, when you meet the one for you then you will understand the reason for sex, BUT that is NOT sex is it making love, & it is different,

Answer 10

Some people are A-sexual. Sounds like you are. Different strokes for different folks.