I mean the question is, Is this fair? If I were to even it up, then I would feel better about forgiving her.
2006-08-28 13:35:55 · 20 answers · asked by dex9753 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
very funny. Now I guess you have free reign on her friends, right?
2006-08-28 13:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by jfahd 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hopefully, you realize that you have a wife who is a big Ho. If she was so loyal to you, she wouldn't do that. And what is also a kick in the groin is this best friend of yours. Why does people think that their best friend is gonna be a true friend ? These so called friends are the first to kick us in the behind. No such a thing as a best friend. Wake up and smell the crap that is going on at your house. If you diddle your wifes friend, then you are both dirty dogs. You will both commit Adultery and is a bad sin. So do what ya gotta do. But I bet your wife has so many affairs, that you can't keep up with her. Hopefully, you don't have any kids with her. She will never change. She doesn't respect her marriage vows to you. She has more activity in her box, then she has in her cranial area. Get rid of her.
2006-08-28 13:47:32 · answer #2 · answered by Norskeyenta 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would look at is why she did it in the first place, might be that you started taking her for granted, it doesnt excuse it but it may be why. Best friends, when it comes to your girl, there is really no such thing, just because you wouldnt doesnt mean they wouldnt.
2 wrongs never make a right, and forgiveness comes from the heart and shouldnt be conditional. Been there done that, if it was a one off affair and she still loves you and made a mistake, you can get past it. If it isnt then find someone who loves you, but leave her first.
2006-08-28 14:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jack J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think your marriage will work from what has happened. It is an injury to your heart and will not be forgotten ever in the future years ahead of you guys..dont take the risk of staying together after this has happened. You wont be a happy man, you will now never trust your wife, believe me. Leave her now before it gets worse.
2006-08-28 13:42:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on your only want to diddle her friend cauz you upset. If you can, find the courage to talk to her about it. Oh and you Deserve an appology!
2006-08-28 13:39:56 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IMHO . . .i think you should just go ahead and diddle his wife...
who knows ? you might even enjoy in the end.....
it's gonna open to a wider spectrum of your sexual preference ...
therefore, all i can say ...try it u might like it...
2006-08-28 13:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by megadisc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a new best friend and I'd consider a new wife as well.
2006-08-28 13:38:07 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is absolutely NOT fair. unfortunately, if you accept what they did, then you're also saying that she can continue to do it. i understand that you're married, but everything has changed now. if you do not stand up for yourself she will walk all over you. standing up for yourself might lead to an ultimatum - stop or leave.
2006-08-28 13:40:30 · answer #8 · answered by feisty_wun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
al's fair in love and war, diddle away.
2006-08-31 22:03:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey what is diddling? If you are an adult then act like it.
2006-08-28 13:44:53 · answer #10 · answered by Smiley Freckles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell it to Jerry Springer.
2006-08-28 13:38:28 · answer #11 · answered by BOB W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋