sorry i know its gross. i'm feel really disgusted too. how can he talk to me that way whe i have been with him for 4 yrs and im a virgin. is he an evil sick bastard! i hate him and wish i never met this trash. he even referred to my private as pus?? u know. does he hate me? how can this whore talk to me this way esp. iim a virgin & he talks like he met me in a bar or something. he doesn't care 4 me right? i hate men, ..
2006-08-28 13:44:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For starters don't hate men becuase yours isn't any good. Secondly, ya it might be a good idea to get ride of him/anyone in your life that treats you sub-par. You should always be treated as well as you treat others.
Best of luck with whatever you choose to do.
2006-08-28 13:48:03 · answer #1 · answered by Chris H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea let him know you don't like being talked to like that. He is probably just testing you. Some girls do get turned on by guys talking like that. You said he was your b/f for 4 years maybe he just doesn't know better. I think you should let him know that is not the way to get down your pants, your not a porn star. How ever I might add that the term I want to bang you isn't that bad I understand you may not hear it every day and I wouldn't use that term out of context but I will say this your kind of coming across as prude. I think you may need to find some one with different values then him. But then again this boy (not man as you mentioned at the end) probably just downloaded some porn like every other guy in the world and thought he would be cool if he talked like a porn star. In his head he was saying "In porn girls seem to be turned on by this ronchie talk why wouldn't my girl friend." He probably deserves a get out of jail free card this one time. Just let him know how you feel and see if he is at all sorry for talking to you like a whore if not then get rid of him.
2006-08-28 14:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by rebel_slash_hippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, he is just a frustrated little boy. Get rid of him, many men will respect you for who you are and your high morals. Dump this jerk and find a nice guy.....don't hate all men...there are plenty of great ones out there, I know I have one and we have been together for 19 years, you just have to get through the rotten apples first. Good Luck!
2006-08-28 13:50:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lil_Red_Bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to respect you more and you decision to keep your virginity. If he doesn't, dump him. Some guys think such language is a turn on for some women. If you're not comfortable in the relationship and with his attitude, dump him.
2006-08-28 13:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by saint_michael7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years??? Damn!!!
To answer your question, it depends on how old you are. If you can't drive yet, you should probably not do it. Sounds like he's probably a jerk, though. Maybe you should dump him and find another virgin to date. Then you can do puzzles all day together.
2006-08-28 13:51:39 · answer #5 · answered by hjlite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He talks to you like that because you let him. Do you mean to tell me that after 4 years this is the 1st time that he has said some crap like that? You are a virgin and you need to date a man who will respect your choice to wait. He wants sex and you don't. Don't give in to his a.s.shole demands.
2006-08-28 13:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by L'teefaw 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u havent slept with him & u've bin 2gether 4 4 yrs. im really not surprised at this, onli that its taken so long 4 this topic 2 come up.
he doesnt hate u, y would u think that?
if u dont want 2 sleep with him, dont. tell him this & if he cant accept it break up with him
2006-08-28 13:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like he is disrespecting you to the point where you can't stand him, dump him! he isn't worth having you right beside him. so what if it's a 4 year relationship, let it go. there will be more guys out there for you. you'll find a better one, trust me.
2006-08-28 13:49:11 · answer #8 · answered by swtcocoa231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might say truly think of no longer uncomplicated approximately your relationship and what you pick out of existence. Do you truly should be in touch with somebody which you have cussing suits with? it truly is barely an illustration of ways issues gets worse. Now your loved ones, next in public. you will possibly desire to have extra appreciate for your self and for the guy your with and vise versa.
2016-11-05 23:56:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The minute he said that to you, you should have dumped him. He may be tired of waiting but that's his problem, not yours. Find someone else who will treat you and your feelings with respect.
2006-08-28 13:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by phoenixheat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋