she is friends with him sort of. she keeps trying to get him to come over a do stuff for her all the time. and shes married and she wants him to come over when hes not there. there is nothing going on between them i do know that.but i cant stand her.
2006-08-28 13:32:52 · 22 answers · asked by tazzgirl6983 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her your man is small, or perhaps bent at a weird angle. Or perhaps relay a story of woe which discloses the many stds and things you have caught from him. Or you can tell her, very confidentially, that the only reason you're married to him is because his parents (who think he's gay) are rewriting their will, and will only include him in the estate if he is married. He is definitely gay, and it is all a farse.
He he he.
2006-08-28 13:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your husband you aren't comfortable with him going to the womans house while her husband isn't home. Ask him how he would feel if you had an attractive male friend come to your house all the time while he wasn't home.
2006-08-28 13:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by *Benny B* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you so sure there's nothin going on? You could go over there with him or you could just tell him not to go. If he insists you've got trouble. Make sure your so called friend's husband knows all about this too and that you don't like it. I don't think he will either.
2006-08-28 13:41:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her need for his help and attention is not normal and should be viewed as threatening to your marriage.
The first and main problem you need to solve is your husband. He needs to be the one to reject her or to say no to her. He has to stop helping her and going over to her place when her husband is not there. It doesn't look good to the neighbors either. Once your husband won't go and help her there is nothing she can do to seduce him or get near him.
If your husband refuses to stop helping her and going over to her place, I can guarantee you he IS having an affair with her.
She is your problem, BUT your husband's attitude is the bigger problem.
2006-08-29 04:49:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that! Tell him how she makes you feel, and he'll listen. He may not fully understand, but just sitting there pretending it's not bothering you is only going to cause pain in the end... Don't ask me how I know... :-/
2006-08-28 13:36:21 · answer #5 · answered by Princess J9 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your man to stop going over there, let him know how uncomfortable it makes you.
2006-08-28 13:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her husband and let him know what is going on. This should solve all your problems with the homewrecker.
2006-08-28 15:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by trisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your man you arent comfortable with his vistis to her house and that u should be honest with ur feelings to him and forget about the other gurl.
2006-08-28 13:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by cjdc2003@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well more than likely he may be cheating with her on you and thats why she wont leave him alone you and him need to have a serious talk and find out whats really going on
2006-08-28 13:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband needs to step in and stop this. he should no be friends with this woman. also what you can do is tell her man.
2006-08-28 13:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋