i need responses immediately: GUY TROUBLE!?

Question

OK, so I have been talking to this guy off and on for a couple weeks. Last night he called me to see what i was doing for the rest of the evening and i said not much and that we should definitely hang out. he said he would call me a little while later, and he did. we talked for a few minutes and he never said a thing about hanging out. so, i called him about an hour later and asked him if he was going to come over and he said he was just going to stay at home, even though it was early in the evening, and he had nothing else to do. he keeps stringing me along, telling me he wants to hang out, and he rarely ever goes through with it. he told me a couple weeks ago that he really liked me, but the problem is that we slept together early on. we both agreed that we hadn't planned on that happening, and we hung out again after that and everything seemed very normal. should i go ahead and confront him about what's up? what do you guys think is going on in his head???

Answer 1

He's probably got gas, and doesn't want to hang out because he is embarrassed. Next time you see him, pull out some Bean-o from your purse, and tell him something like "Oh, I gotta take these, or we'll be hearing machine guns all night." Then he'll know that you can relate to him, and he will ask to borrow some Bean-o.

Answer 2

You are smarter than you think. You hit the nail on the head when you said "he is stringing me along". He called to make sure you would be an available Plan B. Confronting him is wasting time that you could be spending with someone that will always treat you like a Plan A.

Answer 3

I am not a guy but wow guys are so weird, I too am going through something so weird with a guy. Good luck playing the game I am an old player and still do not understand the game. Mine went from every weekend with me 3 times a week in the middle of the week at my house and now timing is not right for him. Go figure, I do not understand men and guess I never will. Try not to care if he comes over or not, I can say it but its harder to live it. Good luck!

Answer 4

I think you are feeding his ego! You slept with him and now he is playing head games. Girl, DUMP HIM!!!!! I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of confronting him and building his ego even higher. What is going on in his head? He wants to keep you aroud for the next round when he needs to get his freak on. Face it sweetie, you were played.

Answer 5

You should definatly confront him. If he has no intentions on hanging out or anything tell him to stop stringing you along. Don't waste your time if he's playing games with you

Answer 6

Ask him what's going on and if he can't give you a good answer, move on. There are plenty of guys that will want to hang out with you.

Answer 7

Maybe you should tell him that you are really digging him and if he likes you then get together if not let you be with others who actually can follow through with scheduled plans. You guys can still be friends.

Answer 8

Well if your interested in him. Just remember guys like the hunt, just stay out of reach for a while. Don't be to eager make him come to you.

Answer 9

I think guys do that all the time...they say they want to hang out then change their mind, and sit at home and do nothing. It just happends.

Answer 10

more than likely he is stringing you along unfortunately. he more than likely has a girl or more on the side and is most likely doing the same thing so he can be with as many girls as possible. trust me I used to do the same thing.