We have a wonderful relationship we comunitcate Really really well and I'm afraid it will change once we are face to face. What do ya'll think is this normal
2006-08-28 13:38:48 · 24 answers · asked by mrsmay28 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's normal. Probably just the fact that you've been away from each other for so long that you've become acclimated and it feels a little strange since you've gotten so used to it.
2006-08-28 13:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, you don't know how normal this is. My husband is a Marine and although he didn't serve over seas this time, we had a lot of friends that did. All the wives felt this way. Driving to the airport with one of them, I had to pull over three or four times so she could throw up (she was that nervous). But here's what happens: Once you get there and that ball of nerves is about to jump right up your throat. Every bad thought you've been thinking is on the top of your mind, you are anxious, nervous and worried about your future, as well as what he'll think of you. Did you wear the right outfit, is your hair a mess....and oh God, the breath...did you bring breathmints? ....then you see him, and the tears come.... then you are allowed to hug him and all those feelings melt away. Gone, like you've never had them to begin with. They are replaced with relief, love and unbelievable happiness. Life, with the exception of a few minor adjustments (depending on where he was), will go back to normal. For most it's better. Because all that communication you've done, has taken you to another level in the relationship. You'll see, and congratulations on him coming home!
2006-08-28 13:53:31 · answer #2 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, how long has he been gone? Mine's coming home in 3 weeks, it was a 120 day trip. I'm nervous too about seeing him! I think it's a normal thing. Just give each other time to adjust to his being home, you've each had your own routines and the whole bed to yourself for a while now. It's so great you've been communicating while he's been away, that's so important! So seeing each other will only add to the wonderful relationship you already have!! Everything will work out just fine, don't worry. :)
2006-08-28 13:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's Gonna Be Nervous Too,U Guys Will Be Alright,I Fished For Many Years It Is Like Meeting For The First Time Again,Enjoy The Experience.......And If He's One Of Our Troops Tell Em Some Of Us Appreciate His Sacrifices,,,Thnx
2006-08-28 13:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES...very normal. You wonder will he still like me when he sees me? Will I like him...just remember what made you fall in love and keep that in mind. If he is coming back from war, don't get frustrated if there are things he cannot talk to you about, but does talk to his buddies about. Spend quality time together, work out, let him help with the grocery and household shopping. Take time for JUST you two. Date.
2006-08-28 13:45:26 · answer #5 · answered by housefullofboys3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is normal. When my hubby came home from Iraq I was so nervous, after all you haven't seen each other in how long? You have to refresh your relationship, get back into the swing of things. it's like dating all over again
2006-08-28 13:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by dontfreakintalktome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course that is normal- you have been living completely different lives while he's been away. And there is always the fear that they have changed. Once he gets home and settle back in I"m sure things will go back to normal
2006-08-28 13:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably! Mine is deployed too and I thought of the same thing. I got quite a bit of time before he comes home, but I'm sure I'll feel nervous, but more of just seeing him, because it's been so long.
2006-08-28 13:42:48 · answer #8 · answered by lees girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer is yes this is very much normal. Your afraid that he may not see you as the wonderful person that he left. Just stay as calm as you can, things will work out fine. Good Luck!!!!!
2006-08-28 13:42:43 · answer #9 · answered by ?Cheshire Cat? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first congrats! hun your just feeling that way, because it's been so long, you have a Man to be proud of.let him know that when you two are home and alone. my girlfriend was having those same thoughts befor i got back from a tour in iraq! but since we were good all along befor during things were better than ither one of us Ever thought. good luck hun,and dont worry
2006-08-28 13:44:46 · answer #10 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋