guy meets girl online. they start to chat so they can get to know each other.
they like each other, and decide to cyber-date until they can meet for real. but guy sometimes disappears without warning, solid explanation ("i was very busy"), or apology. girl doesn't want a play-by-play of guy's life, just a heads up, so she doesn't feel stood up.
within a 4 month period, the disappearing act happens 3 times. girl tells guy that she doesn't like it after each time.
by the fourth time it happens, girl leaves an IM for guy letting him know she's not interested. she learns that this time he disappeared because of a death in the immediate family. he apologized for the first time.
girl accepts the apology, but within a week, and another 4 or 5 day disappearance, girl sends an email explaining that his behavior affects her too negatively to believe anything real could come of this. she accuses him of cyber-dating others and calls him a "loser. let's just say guy wasn't happy.
2006-08-28 13:39:45 · 17 answers · asked by nitsrek 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is that a question or a novel? Yes, I think girl did right, except for the accusation-and-name-calling bit. Guy should have let her know in advance each time he was going to be incommunicado.
2006-08-28 13:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless it's too late and you are "head over heels" in love I'd say drop him. Get somebody else. Try somebody you know. It's safer and you can still have fun emailing. Don't ever go out with someone you don't know. Sounds like he might have others too.
2006-08-28 20:49:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Somebody dies, and you criticize him?
Do yourself a favor, take a vacation, unplug the computer, and get out of the house!
You use the term "cyber-dating" like it's common - it's not.
2006-08-28 20:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget cyber dating and get into the real world if you have problems with a person online just imagine real life!
2006-08-28 20:43:46 · answer #4 · answered by kknpz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant take these online things seriously most of the time. y are u suddenly leaving the convos 4 real?
2006-08-28 20:46:06 · answer #5 · answered by jd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well the girl could do so much better i mean this guy could be a creep and i dont think he really likes you if he keeps doing that but mabey he does things come up but just be careful ok
2006-08-28 20:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by *Miss C* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is why you don't date people on line. You never really know who they are, they could be anybody, and they can tell you anything. It's really not worth the headache.
2006-08-28 20:44:31 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't of stayed in the relationship either, relationships need interaction to work.
She did the right thing in my books.
2006-08-28 20:43:40 · answer #8 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the right thing and get some insurance with united american insurance company!!!
2006-08-28 20:45:50 · answer #9 · answered by bullsfan_1971 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I think that she did cus who would want an unsteady relationship if u can't handle it online then how would he b off line in person
2006-08-28 20:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by scarlett_bytch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋