Family & Relationships - 28 August 2006

if u are just going to say just do it then don't answer at all unless u have any ideas

2006-08-28 15:40:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I happen to be straight and male (my wife and I have been married for about five years). However, I can understand why men or women would be attracted to same sex partners, and choose to have gay or lesbian relationships.

I've just never understood how you can be attracted to both sexes. If your bi-sexual please help me to better understand. I don't mind people being bi-sexual (whatever works for you), but I'm just struggling with understanding it. Do you really have EQUAL feelings for both sexes, or do you tend to favor one over the other given a choice?? I'm sure this differs for each individual, so if you feel comfortable, let me know your feelings, and your situation. What happens when you decide to get married, or when you want to have kids?? Do you just decide to marry the lover you have the most feelings for, or do you choose to marry the opposite sex. I'm not trying to offend anyone with these questions, so don't take it the wrong way. I'm just trying to learn more.

2006-08-28 15:40:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Because I just found out that my year and a half girlfriend cheated on me today. Granted, we're broken up now, but we weren't when she cheated.

I'm straight up pissed about it. Not only did she cheat on me, but she cheated with one of my friend's (who is a girl) person that she likes.

We're both pissed.

Have you ever had the travesty of been being cheated on and what are your thoughts about the situation?

2006-08-28 15:40:20 · 8 answers · asked by Andy G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-28 15:39:53 · 39 answers · asked by confussed 1 in Singles & Dating

what am I to my second cousens?I know I'm NOT their aunt?so what am I?

2006-08-28 15:39:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

opening doors, helping them get seated, and asking them befor you do some thing i.e. hold ther hand or kiss them good night

2006-08-28 15:38:52 · 30 answers · asked by joseph g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 15:38:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just am not as happy as I used to be. I want to be out having fun, finishing school, and loving life with friends. It feels as though I can't do those things. I cry alot, and wonder.

2006-08-28 15:38:08 · 10 answers · asked by JC 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This man and I have been friends for 7 years, we became intimately involved right after my divorce. He said he Loved me, I was up front and honest, I told him i couldn't love him the way he Loved me, because i was trying to get my heart and head straight ,and get all the feelings for my X out of my system. We broke up, tried again,didn't work, all of this within 1 yr. A year later, Now i'm ready and I do love him. Now, he is afraid of being hurt, (who isn't) again. He says we tried 2 times already, didn't work. I feel previous times shouldn' t count. He just wants to be friends, says he's to old to start over, he's 48. Maybe his mind is truly set to be a loner. We started dating though, taking it slow, more like at a crawl, no intimancy after 6 months, a hug and a kiss good bye so far. I feel like I have made more than enough effort to make it work. He says he does love me. There's no closeness, no intimatcy. We do have fun when we are together. More effort, or just break it off.

2006-08-28 15:37:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She says that woman often have sex just to please their mate, and not for their own pleasure... Ladies, do you agree or disagree... explain...

2006-08-28 15:37:40 · 12 answers · asked by Michael G 2 in Singles & Dating

How do you move past an affair in marriage? It is difficult to just forgive and move forward. When a person forgives a debt, that means he or she does not expect payment. Ex. I loaned someone $100, they can not repay--so I forgive the debt. But in marriage, you forgive and then that person(the spouse) wants to immediately borrow that $100 again. How do you forgive a person that has hurt you so deeply and then believe that it will not happen ever again?

2006-08-28 15:37:34 · 16 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok ive been with my bf for almost 2 years and he just recently started talking baby talk. like only to me and everytime he talks to me now..on the phone or in person. its kindd of anoying. how do i tell him this w/o hurting his feelings?

2006-08-28 15:36:02 · 6 answers · asked by urmomma987654 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok, I keep asking questions about this, I know. Well my boyfriend didn't dump me, he was going to because of some people that would have done something to me if they knew he had a girlfriend, but I cheated on him with my friend and so I thought I wanted my friend but now that I have him, I don't, I want my ex back and I don't want to hurt my boyfriend I have right now. I don't want us to get serious and then if one of us got hurt never was friends again. What should I do???

2006-08-28 15:35:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok theres this guy and I TOATALLY love him to death and at school for theat.arts we were practicing out in the hallway and he like when he was walking past me he kept staring at me... and later today (he's on the football team) the guys had to run a cross country and when he went past me he looked at me and he like smiled his face off.

2006-08-28 15:34:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-08-28 15:34:34 · 15 answers · asked by amandey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I know everyone does have them....see I struggle on and off with anxiety and depression. Is he gonna be able to handle this? I don't want to give him more than he can handle...should I back out now before he dumps me? Or just pray for the best?

2006-08-28 15:32:53 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend got pregnant after 2 months of dating this guy she thought was rich...is he using her 4 her money?
instead. she got knocked up & moved in with him-got pregnant on purpose to get his money. He bought a house in his mothers name & makes my friend pay 1,000 a month for mortgage. Is he using her 4 her money instead. She has to live w/ him cuz he helps her babysit while she is at work. she said he got her pregnant on purpose but i think its the other way around. how does someone get pregnant after 2 months without it being intentional she is 26 yrs old & already has a kid by another guy. she still brags to her friends that she is a stepford wife... but she is noit married to him but married to another guy legally while living with her new babys daddy who is making her pay 1k in mortgage. She makes fun of all her other friends saying oh your so poor & pathetic look at me im rich and your not-all you other girls let your bf's use u for your money. is she a hypocrite?

2006-08-28 15:32:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She moved away a while ago and one of my best friends inspired me to just tell her, finally.

I think it just might set me free of my feelings. So in your best advice, should I tell her?

2006-08-28 15:32:32 · 12 answers · asked by pacific_crush 3 in Singles & Dating

okay

pretend ur this guy
u and i have know eachother for 4-5ish years... we are really good friends.. even though youve lived far away for about 2 of the years we've known eachother(not that far away ) last year.. i told you i liekd you.. you were fine with it.. but u just wanted to stay friends.. i said okay.... now... u and i are in 8th grade and i invite you to my birthday party... i have to pik you up, becuz thats the only way you can come.. now..t he question... if i give you a hug when i see you, would you fereak out/ feel funny.. or be okay with it...?
if you have any questinos about the character u are palying (this is a real life situation.. not a play) then please tell me in ur answer.. put my questin on ur watch list..a dn i will post an answer to ur question in the extra details below VVVV

2006-08-28 15:32:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well im 14 and there is a guy that i like we have been friends for a long time and he has gone out with a couple of my friends but I dont realy care about that... and i have liked him for a LONG time but i havent said anything to him

2006-08-28 15:31:57 · 22 answers · asked by cuyie 1 in Friends

Get at me

2006-08-28 15:31:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm 30 he is forty been married for 6 years we have had a sexless marrage for 4 years it's driving me crazy woundering if marrage cousling will work or if i should get a divorce. the dr.'s can't find anything wrong with him he just thinks it is his age. i've been so tempted to cheat on him and i don't want to do that he is feeling guilty because he can't preform. i have dreams of us divorcing lately we talked tonight about trying cousling and splitting up if it doesn't work out . i need help

2006-08-28 15:31:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He drinks bout ever day sometimes til he passes out at the table. he tells me he is going to quit and slow down. When he drinks he gets mouthy and can say some mean things (never hits me) He will say how pretty other women look or how good they look in certain out fits. I just need some advice. I do love him alot

2006-08-28 15:31:42 · 11 answers · asked by Ozark American 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I became friends with this girl, we clicked. It was a great friendship for awhile. But very slowly, she seemed to show her true colors. Long story short she's; very selfish, controling, hypocritical, finds things to get upset about, an attention whore, she fabricates stories, only hears what she wants too, & is a spoiled brat that always has to have her way, or no one can be happy. Yet talks about her life as if she's living out of a cardboard box & everything goes 'wrong'. She also loves to use people (as punching bags, etc). So, I start to confront her on this, that does no good. She constantly comes to me to ***** about things, but when i don't tell her what she wants to her, she gets annoyed. So I broke off the friendship for a while. Friends of ours started telling me she made changes, & I saw some for myself. We became friends again but she seems to be only using me when she's bored or is upset. No one else will be there for her like I am, but i'm sick of this...

2006-08-28 15:31:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i've been dating him for about a year. but this other guy i've known him for 5 and recently i've started developing feelings for him. they are both great guys but my boyfriend has certain personality traits that i cannot stand and am not compatible with but on the other hand the other guy is unbelievably sweet and nice plus my whole family like him, unlike my boyfriend which my whole family detests.. i dont know what to do. my family never really gave my boyfriend a chance. he treats me great though sometimes too sensitive.. help!!

2006-08-28 15:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by Yashoda S 1 in Singles & Dating

i ask my bf if i got pregnant what will he do. he said get married only aft giving birth as we cant crush with his brother's wedding in oct.

2006-08-28 15:30:42 · 18 answers · asked by yeron ng 2 in Singles & Dating

Im looking for this song and can't find it anywhere on the net. Can anyone help?? its called "Temptation Sensation" by Heinz Kiessling.

2006-08-28 15:30:24 · 9 answers · asked by Acknutz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-08-28 15:30:17 · 16 answers · asked by kathy T 2 in Singles & Dating

about a year ago i met a guy. he was going out with one of my friends at the time. i met him with my friend and i liked him almost at once! he is reli cute and RELI sweet. he laughed at my DUMB jokes.(they sucked trust me i was nder pressure because i couldnt let my friend know i liked him cuz they were going out). anyway this year when i saw him i was kinda scared to like him. i had been thinking about what it would have been like if we end up going out. i thought about how he is not serious about relationships. he hasnt reli kept a girlfriend for a long time. i think the longest hes ever kept a girl is the relationship he is in now! which is another problem! he talks to me but as a friend. at my last school Valentines day dance, we danced. after we danced, his friends asked him if we were gonna go out...he said no. i didnt even wanna dance with him but my friend asked him for me! she did it without telling me! i realized i never loved him. i KNOW i dont now. i just wanna be friends!

2006-08-28 15:29:54 · 4 answers · asked by .oh snap.london bridge.oh snap. 3 in Friends

He drinks bout ever day sometimes til he passes out at the table. he tells me he is going to quit and slow down. When he drinks he gets mouthy and can say some mean things (never hits me) He will say how pretty other women look or how good they look in certain out fits. I just need some advice. I do love him alot

2006-08-28 15:29:28 · 14 answers · asked by Ozark American 2 in Marriage & Divorce