Well im 14 and there is a guy that i like we have been friends for a long time and he has gone out with a couple of my friends but I dont realy care about that... and i have liked him for a LONG time but i havent said anything to him
2006-08-28 15:31:57 · 22 answers · asked by cuyie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he probably doesn't like you if he's gone out with your friends. if he really liked you, he would have told your friends no and gone for you. you should move on.
2006-08-28 15:34:03 · answer #1 · answered by wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why you haven't done anything since you liked him for a while now. Why now? =P
Anyways, if this guy went out with your friends, that really shouldn't matter to you and it doesn't. That's a good start. Maybe, he's wondering if you feel something towards him and he's testing to see if you're jealous or even interested. Because he doesn't know, he's free to do whatever he wants. You like him. You guys are friends. Talk to him. That equals to maybe something happening. But if he doesn't feel the same way as you, accept the way things are and move on. You'll find someone else :) As long as you guys stay friends, I don't think telling him that you like him will jeopardize anything. Good luck!
2006-08-28 22:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel. It could make a world of difference. And if he doesn't seem interested, he may just be taken back a bit - give him time. He may not know how to act right away. Everyone likes to hear that someone cares for them. Put it on the table and see what happens. At least you'll know soon if you should continue to dream about him.
2006-08-28 22:41:07 · answer #3 · answered by Paige2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I am 14 too. I have a lot of guy friends also. I can tell if he is hitting on/likes me by the way he looks at me, by what he says, if he is nervous to talk to me....i honestly think you should tell him how you feel. Of course i haven't done that before, but if your not comfortable telling him, then let him come to you. let him be the one trying to get your attention. Sooner or later he will realize that he has liked you all this time and ask you out! Who knows....
Good Luck!
2006-08-28 22:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on. You're just too young (personal op.) And if you really want a relationship, the best way is to be open. Tell him about your feelings, and ask him about his. What do you loose? PS: Make sure that he is NOT a lot older than you. You know why I said that.
2006-08-28 22:38:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a guy my self, and i happen to be in ur situation, but with a girl...
i am also around your age.
if u havnt allready ask one of ur closest guy friend to ask him. guys dont think of anything when other GUYS ask them about grils.
he will think nothing of it, unelss he likes you, if you have tried this JUST ASK the worst posable thing that could happen is that hell say no and it might be awkward for a couple days, youll get over it!
2006-08-28 22:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by derek needs help 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about a similar topic with him and see if he feels the same way. or ask a friend that is close to him (that wont tell him that you asked him) and if he says he likes you the way you like him they aproach him (like 2 weeks later to not make it obvious)
2006-08-28 22:35:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. its about time you said something to him! Hopefully he likes you too! Your 14 so don't worry about it - there will be plenty of time for that when you get older.
2006-08-28 22:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by Michael S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should then start flirting more than just being friends with him and joke with him and give him eye contact. He might know then you like him or you can just tell him straight up you like him
2006-08-28 22:35:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww... how sweet I think that you should ask him how he feels about you, wait, never mind that might be kinda awkward. Trust me you know when a guy likes ya.
2006-08-28 22:36:58 · answer #10 · answered by becca4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋