about a year ago i met a guy. he was going out with one of my friends at the time. i met him with my friend and i liked him almost at once! he is reli cute and RELI sweet. he laughed at my DUMB jokes.(they sucked trust me i was nder pressure because i couldnt let my friend know i liked him cuz they were going out). anyway this year when i saw him i was kinda scared to like him. i had been thinking about what it would have been like if we end up going out. i thought about how he is not serious about relationships. he hasnt reli kept a girlfriend for a long time. i think the longest hes ever kept a girl is the relationship he is in now! which is another problem! he talks to me but as a friend. at my last school Valentines day dance, we danced. after we danced, his friends asked him if we were gonna go out...he said no. i didnt even wanna dance with him but my friend asked him for me! she did it without telling me! i realized i never loved him. i KNOW i dont now. i just wanna be friends!
2006-08-28 15:29:54 · 4 answers · asked by .oh snap.london bridge.oh snap. 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
what do i do? i know i sound young and im in jr high. but that doesnt mean i feel any different than u would.
2006-08-28 15:30:42 · update #1
everyone's always exspected me to like so i have. and i think i still do. i just dont LOVE him i REALLY like him tho!
2006-08-28 15:31:21 · update #2
Junior high.. the good ol' days.
That's basically when puberty starts kickkin' in them teenage boys right? hahah.
As you already pointed out, you said that you don't love him. That's a good thing because you have the rest of your life to experience love. This is probably just infatuation.. or in other words, puppy love.
You also said that you he's not into committment or real relationships. If he's going out with someone right now, than that's it you know? End of story. There's not much you can do except wait to see if he feels the same way as you do.
His reaction to the dance at the Valentine dance thingy was probably because he was embrassed or something. I mean, friends change how you act sometimes right?
I think you have the answer to this inside of you already. Yes, just be friends. You don't have to be anything you're not so as long as you're happy, do as you wish.
Good luck :)
2006-08-28 15:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by lovergirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't sure, then don't get your hopes so high up && don't rush things. Keep things at friend level && let it play its self out && see where it takes you! Your young, dont rush love!
2006-08-28 15:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by DiXiE DARLiNG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to do anything. Just take it easy. If he wants to ask you out, he knows where you are.
2006-08-28 15:36:08 · answer #3 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren,t sure then don,t. you are very young.so don,t do something foolish. i know everyone has feelings especialy at you age.puppy love?maybe, but puppies can get hurt too.
2006-08-28 15:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by houdini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋