Why is showing respect to a women all ways end up with them thinking you want some thing from them?

Question

opening doors, helping them get seated, and asking them befor you do some thing i.e. hold ther hand or kiss them good night

Answer 1

Why are you holding a random woman's hand? Do you kiss just any woman good night? Are you dating this woman? If so, I think you just might actually want something from her... Love, Sex, Passion, whatever you want to call it.

Answer 2

I actually love it when a man shows respect to a women, but some women feel this way because their are *** holes out their who end up messing everything up and just want something in return. Not all women are like this, but the ones who have gotten hurt are the ones who have had a man who wanted only something. Those men are the ones who put bad names on men. If it's not that then their just bitches who act stupid. Just keep doing what you do and everything will be alright. From what I know a lot of women out there love it when a man shows respect. Those types of men are hard to find lol Good luck and ciao~

Answer 3

Lots of us are gunshy due to bad experience, but I usually look for the good in people. If a man is respectful, I usually just think he is a nice guy. Actually, guys are usually the ones giving other guys a bad name. I take people at face value, but I've been called naive a time or two. My guy friends are usually the ones to tell me all guys really just wanst in my pants - even if they "pretend" to be nice or a gentleman. I hope that's not true.

Answer 4

I don't think that it does, I recently went out with someone for over a month he was just like that and it was a real treat. I had actually forgotten what it was like and did not always realize he was waiting at the door for me, He never missed a time either. I miss him already!

Answer 5

They just know.
All uhh girls and women put up a wall to protect themselves from rejection or getting hurt. Maybe the nice things you do for her makes her feel suspicious because it doesn't happen very often.

Guys who do that (open doors, etc. etc.) have class. Thumbs up for them.

I mean really, how many guys do you see doing that nowadays?

Answer 6

I was raised to respect a women and do all the good thing for them.

Answer 7

I try to stay away from those that accuse falsely. They don't want to be confused by the facts, and I not into telling them what to think or believe. When I see that, (if i see that) I leave that bunch to themselves to practice their belief(s) upon whomever they can attract to it.

Besides if she confuses respect for trickery then who (or what?)have they been around to come up with this belief?
IF this very belief doesn't cause them to leave me well then,I leave that too. Too much drama for me.

So, when you discover a woman thinks thus, do you stay around them?

Answer 8

If gentlemanly behavior makes a woman think you want something, they're lacking in the class department.

I don't know though... if someone kissed me, I might think there's a bit more there than just good manners.

Answer 9

Sounds like your going after the wrong women, some like that some even expect it while others despise it. I personally like it, but if your trying to hard to pleas then it does look a little suspicious.

Answer 10

Not sure. That is a good question. I think it is just being a nice person. Sometimes girls are not use to a guy being nice to them without wanting something.