Is anal sex feel like regualr sex? Does it hurt before and after?

Answer 1

The enjoyment of Anal Sex depends highly on the receiver and the giver. If your female, it helps to be experienced and know what you're seeking.

I had a female who had a boyfriend who was 10 inches and tried Anal Sex when she was 14.

Needless to say, it was really painful for her and she hates it. That's because her first experience was with someone who was way too big.

Usually your first experience should be with someone of average size like 5 to 6 inches else it will really hurt. As a guy, I'm just going by "what I heard" from women and using simple reasoning based off of Physics.

If you're female, experiment with someone who knows what they're doing and will be gentle when starting out. If they do it too hard, it'll be painful.

Anal Sex is where the woman's a car. You want to warm the woman up first and you start out slow and careful with penetration. Once the anus acclimatizes to the girth, then the male can proceed with picking up the pace.

The reason why you start off slow is to avoid or minimize bleeding. If you're too rough, it'll hurt and that bleeding will make it painful.

Some people will use lubricants so that the penetration isn't dry. That's where KY Jelly, melted butter, or Vaseline comes in. Water is not a lubricant and when it dries out can cause chaffing. Semen can be used as a lube, but it also dries out as well given time and depending on how prolonged the Anal Sex activity is.

Women who are experiencing Anal Sex will usually use their hand for clitoral stimulation while they're receiving Anal Sex. It's to inundate their sense so that they'r receiving pain and pleasure simultaneously.

My dad used to pour salt on his oranges to make the oranges taste sweeter. Mixing pain and pleasure in the right amounts can induce orgasm. If you're experiencing too much pleasure, you can have your senses numbed so people like to engage in Anal Sex so that it's giving them that high with the endorphins as well as giving a little pain.

The stimulation from Anal Sex tends to come from the inner walls of the anus that are sensitive feeling that sensation of the object or Phallus rubbing up against that sensitive area.

Women who are experienced with giving Oral Sex to man will occasionally insert a finger into the man's anus to create a similar effect or rubbing their Prostate.

Some women will use such things as Ben-Wa Balls in their *** so that it's filled. Sometimes just the feel of foreign objects in the *** can heighten arousal. The Ben-Wa Balls when placed inside can also create a sort of ribbing action if the male is penetrating the female's vagina so that the shaft length of the penis will rub up against the Ben-Wa Balls that are inside the anus.

For some women who really want it in the *** and enjoy the pain, that's really just tapping into Psychology and whatever Fixations or Unique Fetishes they developed during their Sexual Development.

You can create just about any pleasure developed from Psychological Conditioning when you pair up a certain act or the thought of an act with a pleasurable experience.

This comes back to Pavlov's Theory with the dogs that would salivate when they'd hear a bell indicating that it was feeding time.

That's why some women like Dirty Talk that puts them in a Psychologically submissive position, getting their Hair Pulled where it's painful but the vaginal penetration is arousing them, or Nipple Clamps that elicit pain through the areolas but they're receiving pleasure or stimulation in other parts of their body.

If you like pain, then Anal Sex may indeed be what you're seeking. If you don't like pain and you've only practiced with vaginal sex, doing Anal may be something that you want to slowly adjust to because if it's done wrong, it'll be a horrible experience.

If you're working with an inexperienced male partner, make sure the partner is aware of the bacteria and germs that come with Anal Sex and not to insert himself into your Vagina until after proper cleaning.

This may seem obvious, but some guys don' think about that. A woman can contract Cystitis, which can be very unpleasant.

If you're unsure, perhaps you should experiment using small objects or your fingers. For sanitation purposes, experiment when you're in the hot tub with soap.

If you're going to engage in Anal Sex, it helps to really "clean out your system" before you try engaging in Anal Sex for the first time. Take some Metamucil or laxative. Then take a shower so that you're all nice and "clean."

This is especially good if your male partner engages in rimming or licking you out. This minimizes the chance of the male eating too much chocolate *** cream.

Answer 2

Dear Kathy, Anal sex can be painful or pleasurable, it depends on how you go about it . You have to remember that like the vagina , the anus can be explored and its muscles relaxed with gentle finger penetration.keep in mind that lubrication here is important,you want to work your way in slowly, perhaps beginning with massaging around the rim of the anus before penetrating. Hope this helps !

Answer 3

Anal sex is not the same, at least not for most women. And for me personally, it hurt both during and after. If you really want to try it, stock up on lube - it makes it much easier.

Answer 4

Anal sex feels quiet sore for the first few times.Use lube for first times but if you do end up trying it make him do it gently.Oh yea and you will have a sore a*s for awhile,especially when you go to the toilet.If you do it, youll find out.

Answer 5

How can it hurt before? It does hurt for the first few minutes -- how much depends on how gentle your partner is and how tight you are. After a while though, it feels just fine and you can probably achieve orgasms like never before. It doesn't really hurt after unless it went really bad and you tore something.

Answer 6

It might feel really good for the guy, but usually the girl feels like she is going to s**t when he sticks it in because of the spincter muscle. It hurts too.

Answer 7

It doesn't feel anything like traditional sex. In my opinion, it hurts really bad to do it, I find no pleasure in it. Some people do really enjoy it. If you do it my advice is to use plenty of lubrication.

Answer 8

It burns like HELL afterwards😟 DONT do IT😟 but on the other hand it's pleasurable during it😜

Answer 9

Nothing like regular sex. I didn't like it all I felt was pain during and after.Once was more then enough for me!

Answer 10

if done right it"s better then regular sex