i've been dating him for about a year. but this other guy i've known him for 5 and recently i've started developing feelings for him. they are both great guys but my boyfriend has certain personality traits that i cannot stand and am not compatible with but on the other hand the other guy is unbelievably sweet and nice plus my whole family like him, unlike my boyfriend which my whole family detests.. i dont know what to do. my family never really gave my boyfriend a chance. he treats me great though sometimes too sensitive.. help!!
2006-08-28 15:31:13 · 7 answers · asked by Yashoda S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to leave your boyfriend leave him . Don't do it to be with someone else. The grass isn't always greener on the otherside. You wouldn't like it if you got played so just remember you are playing with someone's feelings. If after a year you don't see it going anywhere stop playing games. Let him find someone that genuinely cares for him too.
2006-08-28 15:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by chemicalCourtney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for another guy then you need to break up with your boyfriend before someone gets hurts!! It seems like you like the other guy more anyways!! Just follow your heart you will make the right choice!!
2006-08-28 22:37:19 · answer #2 · answered by onesexyg18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally, I've found it MY ANSWER - in your question
I find the answers to some of mine. Thank you for asking it.
I not going to tell you what you answered for me
you'll have to figure that out for yourself, if you want.
(like learning to ride a bicycle some things you must do for yourself)
My answer? to your question...
I'm not sure that you are playing a dangerous game but
I do believe that you are in a dangerous position (emotional of course)
there are
1 you
2 your bf
3 your new interest
4 your dad
5 your mom
6 your aunt
7 your uncle
8 sibling...
9 sibling...
etc...
everyone probably cannot be happy with YOUR decision.
the question I want to ask you is
on this list (make yours with the correct people on it)
"who do YOU want to be happy with YOUR decision?"
Is there a solution that will get that?
2006-08-28 23:07:46 · answer #3 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you have to decide who it is you want... and go with that. Is your bf worth staying with? Is the other guy interested in the first place? Plus you have to decide if you do anything with the friend... if you want to have some time inbetween them so he isn't the rebound guy! Good luck with it!
2006-08-28 22:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by angel007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself in check--you're playing a dangerous game.
2006-08-28 22:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by EMAILSKIP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you decide, make sure that you understand that you are the one who has to live with the decision, and you can't take back the action once it is done
2006-08-28 22:51:44 · answer #6 · answered by coffeegirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow... go by ur feelings sometimes ppl around you see thing we are not able to see so perhaps you should consider your family's opinion... good luck ^^
2006-08-28 22:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by jlnunez06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋