Because I just found out that my year and a half girlfriend cheated on me today. Granted, we're broken up now, but we weren't when she cheated.
I'm straight up pissed about it. Not only did she cheat on me, but she cheated with one of my friend's (who is a girl) person that she likes.
We're both pissed.
Have you ever had the travesty of been being cheated on and what are your thoughts about the situation?
2006-08-28 15:40:20 · 8 answers · asked by Andy G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes ive been cheated on. there is no way really to explain how it feels. honestly its the worst feeling on earth, first its denial, then its anger and then its pain. i "thought" was in love with this guy once, i found out he was cheating with his ex. i couldnt beleive it. when it really hit me i did nothing but cry for like 3 days. now i know he wasnt worth it but at the time it hurt so bad. also what hurts about being cheated on is that you start thinking something is wrong with you yourself to make this person turn to someone else. that wasnt the only time i was cheated on. so now its hard to trust anyone. ive been with my boyfriend now for over 2 years and i still find myself doubting him all the time. i just cant help it. once it happens to you, especially a few times you always wonder its going to happen again.
2006-08-28 15:52:32 · answer #1 · answered by krystina2100 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was cheated on by my ex-wife. An old boyfriend of her's came to town and she gave me some line like she needed to go out of town to visit a cousin she was close with at the time. I sensed that she was lying and was proved to be right. It did hurt a bit but actually worked out to be a good thing as it made it much easier when the break-up came.
2006-08-28 22:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married 3 times, in 2 of them I was cheated on, dont go back to her( I tried ) shell only hurt you again. Im not tring to say that i know what to tell you , but I have been crushed and driven to danm neer the point of insanity thinking it was some how my falt just to come to the reality that most cheaters do not have morals, or know how to be fathfull. Maybe if she is willing to go to counseling with you there mite be hope for some thing? the best of luck to you and now you know what trats to look for in your next relationship .
2006-08-28 23:00:28 · answer #3 · answered by wanderlust111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes I been cheated on and I was hurt, but in time you feel better. once a cheater always a cheater! you did the right thing, but watch out they always come lurking around saying they are so sorry!
2006-08-28 22:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by birdsdafly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i havent been but the love of my life hurt me more then anyone else ever has n ever will when he said what we had wasnt anythang and i was hurt when 1 guy left me for an older woman
2006-08-28 22:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by lilmommiNeosha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is truley hard to explain i was done like that by my. ex. wife now and for your own sanity dont fall for that i am sorry that is nothing more than a church to get there way i divorced her in .2003. . fact?
2006-08-28 23:48:49 · answer #6 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing u can do about it.it s good that u pick the right decision..not to be with her anymore.of course it is too pain..try to be more positive , pray always ..
2006-08-29 00:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no but i bet it hurts and i would hate to be in those shoes. im sorry youll meet someone better dont worry.
2006-08-28 22:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by Happy Mommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋