Question for those that are bi-sexual?

Question

I happen to be straight and male (my wife and I have been married for about five years). However, I can understand why men or women would be attracted to same sex partners, and choose to have gay or lesbian relationships.

I've just never understood how you can be attracted to both sexes. If your bi-sexual please help me to better understand. I don't mind people being bi-sexual (whatever works for you), but I'm just struggling with understanding it. Do you really have EQUAL feelings for both sexes, or do you tend to favor one over the other given a choice?? I'm sure this differs for each individual, so if you feel comfortable, let me know your feelings, and your situation. What happens when you decide to get married, or when you want to have kids?? Do you just decide to marry the lover you have the most feelings for, or do you choose to marry the opposite sex. I'm not trying to offend anyone with these questions, so don't take it the wrong way. I'm just trying to learn more.

Answer 1

I don't know what to call myself. I have always dated men, but I am attracted to women. I look at all of them as humans, the only differences are, they look differently. Just like you don't look like other men. All men look differently, and we date different men. Your wife doesn't look like other woman, dut you have been attracted to other woman. In our case it is other sexes. Both male and female are sexy to us. We can decide to be with a woman but still have sexual attractions to men and other woman, we can decide to be with a man and still have sexual attractions to other men and woman. You can never deny the fact you are attracted to other people even in a relationship.

Answer 2

as for sex either man or women will do. but with a LTR I prefer a woman.

Answer 3

you sound like a very intelligent centered person who might be a little ambivalent about his sexuality...im not inferring anything, however maybe you should research in a more / compelling format--------