My wife and I have been separated for seven months. It began with a restraining order filed against me. No physical violence ever occurred. I found out she was lying about an affair she had last fall. I got really moody, often shouting and cussing. Since that day in court I went to our hometown, met the other man, got some dirt on her. I've made some drastic adaptations to the pseudosingle life. I got all our debts knocked out and managed to get a new, but smaller house. I've also met a few ladies, had some fun. I've started making plans as to my post military career (I have about 13 months left.) We have a 2 year old and on visitation she often talks about the idea of dating me again, getting to know me again. I can sense that she wants to come back. She confessed her affair and she states that she's made some changes. I still love her, but I wonder about her motives, since she talks about how hard she has it economically. Plus now I have done some things. What shoud I do?
2006-08-27
13:53:53
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Thomas K
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Marriage & Divorce