2006-08-27 13:46:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
use every hole she has. use drugs like cocain, exctacy or viagra. make her dress up like different people. get sex toys. rent porno movies. go out to sex hotels. buy handcuffs and latex. tell her to loose weight. drink heavily.
2006-08-27 13:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by Nick M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a dirty movie with your lover. It's a great way to enhance sexual communication. When you see it you can talk about it. You can let each other know your preferences or boundaries with ease as they come up in the film. It can help to spice up your sexual repertoire. Seeing other people being creative in bed can give any slow sex life some new ideas. It can help get both of you aroused. When you need that extra push the right adult film can do the trick in a few minutes, whereas foreplay alone may take to long. It can hep take away the feeling that you (or your partner) are a freak. Seeing other people do things can normalize sex for you and your partner. If she sees a fellow woman enjoying analingus, for example, she may not feel badly about wanting to explore it. Entertainment, value is a good enough reason all by it's self.
2006-08-28 08:49:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sara_V. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step one is to have open communication with your wife. There are different things you can suggest, but you need to make sure she is also comfortable with the ideas you propose.
Different things to try:
-Make a comfortable, relaxing atmosphere. This is probably more for your wife's benefit than anything, but it's always nice. Incence, scented candles (or regular), light music, or flowers. Romance and relaxation are always great.
-Add new things to spice things up. Lingerie, new positions, toys, lotions, editable panties, or any other little trick to spice things up. Make sure whatever you do choose will be pleasureable for the both of you. Or, if you try more than one, make sure you both benefit from atleast one thing.
-Adult movies. It may sound bad, but I've heard that watching one together, or having one play in the background can help change things up. You can follow along with the tape, trying what they try as they try it, or after they've done something. It can teach you both new tricks, and you might find something new you like.
But remember, the key to all these things is good communication between you and your spouse. Spontatnaity can be very good, but she must be comfortable with the new things you are trying. Make sure your sex life is not a monatenous schedule, either. Same things continuously will get boring. So.. try some new things, and spice things up! Enjoy and good luck!
2006-08-27 21:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by Emerilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be interested enough to find out what she really wants out of physical intimacy. Then make youself scarce, I know I hate it when my spouse hovers over my life and calls me from work every 10 minutes. I like him so much more when I have the space to live my own life.
2006-08-27 20:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by meanjanine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both need to discuss your likes and dislikes. Foreplay is wonderful when you know what is really turning each other on!
2006-08-27 20:55:38 · answer #5 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with Emerilla
2006-08-27 22:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by abl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kama Sutra. Has good tips ^^;; Lots of positions as well.
2006-08-27 20:48:18 · answer #7 · answered by orange_et_manuges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe role play...or try being more romantic or buying her a piece of lingerie
2006-08-27 20:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Poetannyse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating her again.
2006-08-27 20:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by EVE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me do her while you watch.
2006-08-27 20:47:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋