ok...my boyfriend has a myspace page..(i cant stand it) i have told him he needs to delete it cuz i feel like he could go behind my back and talk to other girls on there..he says he is gonna delete it but lately it has been all talk and no action..i have explained to him how i feel and he has agreed many times totake it down..but he still hasnt done it...whenever i ask him its like "o ill do it when i get around to doing it type of thing" and i know he is just putting me off...we have been together for almost 2 yrs and i feel like there is no possible reason that he would need to have one..he says if i keep bugging him about it then he wont delete it...but the thing is i wouldnt have to bug him about it if he would just do it...right? ugh this is really pissing me off...and im not trying to be controlling...but i dont know that mightbe how he is taking it..girls i want your advice...fellas what do you think my man is thinking ?
2006-08-27 13:47:38 · 24 answers · asked by kelkel0514 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
o yea btw..along time ago i saw that he had comments from a bunch of lil myspace hoochie groupies calling my boyfriend sexy and all that mess..and it freaked me out and i got really mad so now is page is private..cuz he says he doesnt want me getting mad over nothing..
2006-08-27 13:49:25 · update #1
lol !!! godfather...you'd dump me in a second?! thats because you've never seen me sweetheart...NEXT..
2006-08-27 14:01:34 · update #2
Penelopes mom...wtf why are you guys being so mean to me...im already in a bad enough situation without people name calling me and sh*it..i am none of those things that you said...im sure if you look into your past..(way way way way back there somewhere mommy) then im sure you have felt insecure in a relationship b4..guys lie these days...all the time..and im not trying to be lied to..i was just tryin to ask for some advice.
2006-08-27 14:07:41 · update #3
2 years is a serious commitment. If he's not respecting your feelings yet, he probably never will. To the curb.
2006-08-27 13:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay myspace isn't that big of a deal. Yeah you can find people and talk to them if you haven't seen them in a while..whatever...okay you want to know my honest opinion? I think you need to have a serious talk with him. Its not really about you not trusting him, its about who he may have on the side and stuff like that. I think talking to him would be a good thing to do. Why would he need to make his page private? That would make me really suspicious...if he tells you that nothing is going on then I don't know if I would believe him. Actually ask yourself this...has his actions or mannerisms changed towards you recently..or is he not as affectionate or something like that. If something has changed between you two then there is something wrong there. I would dump him if he has changed towards you b/c that could mean that he may have someone on the side or trying to get someone on the side...
2006-08-27 20:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm...I don't think you should tell your boyfriend to take down his myspace. If you don't trust him, talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he does something about it, he does, if he doesn't he doesn't. I guess it depends how much you trust him. As long as you trust him, then the myspace thing shouldn't bother you. Us girls, we have a major problem in trusting guys, and they've given us many reasons, but not all guys are bad...
Like I mentioned though, just talk with him. If he doesn't seem like he'll "compromise" with you...then I think you two don't know how to communicate and keep a good relationship going.
2006-08-27 20:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by orange_et_manuges 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Myspace is extremely adictive, trust me! Tell him one more time FIRMLY. If he starts to trail off say no and that he has to get rid of it now! He should get the hint. But if he doesn't if he's really going to keep myspace over a relationship, I don't think he's worth it!
Best wishes!
~paige
2006-08-27 20:51:47 · answer #4 · answered by paige b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that would be quite a turn-off to me
because youre being rather controlling, and its also showing a lack of confidence in yourself and your relationship
he wont cheat on you over myspace
you guys obviously have a serious relationship, hes not gonna throw it away over the internet
just let him have some space, keep the myspace, not a big deal
2006-08-27 20:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is having things his way! he may even think your bossing him arround.
Its short and simple: say no more get your self a new place: say do it now: and be happy or move. Too many dudes got poo for brains. dump him remember the 123stuff, frrst time your dumb second time I'm dumb third time shame on me. Leave
2006-08-27 21:00:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah! I just saw his page and it says "my gf is being poopy because she is bossy and doesn't trust me". If you are going to act like this with all your boyfirends, you aren't going to have anymore. There is nothing less attractive than a whiny, nagging, insecure, jealous baby.
2006-08-27 20:54:57 · answer #7 · answered by Penelope's Mom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
youre being imature, if he wants to cheat on you he can, you arent preventing him from doing it, myspace helps but he could go to a club and easily get a girl, after two years you should have learned to trust he wouldnt cheat on you, so trust him or brake up with him, its very jealous, selfish, and stupid for you to want him to get rid of his myspace profile
2006-08-27 20:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a guy but you're one controlling *****. to deprive somebody from myspace nowadays is like taking away the very oxygen they breathe. Judging by your writing style, you're probably a teenager so that makes your bf a teenager and that makes myspace his life.
the end. he should just tell you to stop being so damn motherly.
2006-08-27 20:50:16 · answer #9 · answered by stupid nickname. 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how about you do the same things he did to u,sign into myspace and get more guys in your list(just to make sure he really care about you or not)
2006-08-28 14:12:22 · answer #10 · answered by misha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋