Family & Relationships - 26 August 2006

After 6 months my girlfriend's Ex, whom she remains friends with, calls her a dozen times a day, at all hours, wanting to chat, know where she is, who she is with, etc. He told her recently that he still thinks that they will wind up together, but she told me not to worry because she thinks he will get over it. He yells at her, belittles her, me, and our relationship, and has physically grabbed her, held her, and tried to kiss her several times recently. I'm at my wits end because the guy seems to be genuinely crazy, borderline stalker, yet she refuses to push him away and still wants to chat on the phone with him and "hang out" with him a couple times a week.. Am I overreacting for being extremely upset about this??? What should I do???

2006-08-26 21:32:36 · 25 answers · asked by Alan T 1 in Singles & Dating

im13 so email me at iluvtiggerr@yahoo.com

2006-08-26 21:32:02 · 4 answers · asked by angie 1 in Singles & Dating

What do you like about your classroom?

2006-08-26 21:31:52 · 8 answers · asked by Sha M 1 in Friends

OKAY THE QUESTION MAY NOT HAVE BEEN CLEAR, I NEED TO KNOW WHAT TO DO TO CLEAR MY WIFES THOUGHTS AND MAKE HER FEEL COMFY ABOUT ME LEAVING?

im leaving for basic training sept 12 2006, and my wife has been in for about 2 and 1/2 yrs already, i was cool with her leave and didnt really stress the whole time she was gone except for when she had just left. she is really hurting about me leaving even though it is all for a good cause. im going army and she i air force but has 4 yrs left im going in for 6yrs. we have a 3yr old boy, and i am dedicated to her, and its hard toknow where i will be but i want her head to be in the right place. we are both 23yrs old. been together since 16, got married at 18 had a baby at 20, and went to the same elemenatry, jr high and high school. i dont know what to do. i am going to take care of my family but try to understand my situation.
I NEED FEMALE INFO ON WHAT I COULD DO DURING SCHOOL TO MAKE YOU FEEL COMFY? I WANT HER TO NOT WORRY. HELP, WOMEN?

2006-08-26 21:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by CATCH 22 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

and if you are female theis always a shortage of suitable men.

I cant find a nice chic in her 50's. My daughters cant find any boys to fancy.

2006-08-26 21:31:11 · 16 answers · asked by Paul R 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

(unwritten rights)

Can I ask her to change her wardrobe?

2006-08-26 21:30:46 · 41 answers · asked by Vitamin C 2 in Singles & Dating

im 20 but i like girls who are 14-15 years old sometimes they wanna have sex with me. i've no idea why they'd go for an older guy like me but they seem VERY submissive when it comes to anything.. they listen to me all the time.

2006-08-26 21:30:29 · 12 answers · asked by light_farts 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm divorced, own my own house and have three kids. I work 40 hours a week. I could really use some cash, but second jobs don't pay very well. I have a boyfriend, and don't know if I want to give up any of my time with him, my private time or time I need to spend with housework. Is it worth it to have a few extra hundred dollars a month?

2006-08-26 21:28:57 · 18 answers · asked by cocoanutt 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would really like to talk with my neighbors goat and his dog about something, but first I need them to speak English. I have this idea about how I can impress my girlfriend. While we sit on the picnic table I can have the dog and goat come up behind her and say hi and when she turns around she sees the goat and the dog and my girlfriend will think i'm a ventriliquist!!

2006-08-26 21:27:00 · 9 answers · asked by Lucky L 1 in Family

I really hate when a person boast to everyone that they always tell the truth, then you find their profile and its nothing but lies, like saying he is 36 when he is really 43. or claiming to have several cars, motorcycles which are really just pieces of old junkers stack together in his back yard like a red neck.. Or better yet putting up a pic of a car he bought on ebay, which is a show car, but the only one he ever bought and writing, my latest show peice purchase, pretending like he has more.ugggh he lives at home with his mom, doesn't work, and claims to know carma electra (sorry if I misspelled) Someone tell me, this is a player right, or if not a player then a poser. EverytimeI think I still have feeling for him i just log on to one of the dating websites he is on, (and was on when we were together) read his line of bullshit and suddenly I don't love him I just feel sorry for him. So my question is a poser or player>?

2006-08-26 21:26:37 · 16 answers · asked by ladylunamina 3 in Singles & Dating

Sorry i'm bored, there's not a lot you can talk about with walls, after about 5seconds they get a bit boring.

I'm listening to "I bet you look good on the dancefloor" at the mo! what are you doing?

2006-08-26 21:26:37 · 20 answers · asked by missy minx 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 and have only ever had 3 boy friends. The 1st two I didnt really like and when I cheated on them (one night stands) i didnt really feel guilty. Now I have this really nice bf and he is actually a really nice guy. I was doing so well till the other night when I kissed another guy. I am never satisfied with what ive got. Any comments or advice would be appreciated. I feel like a horrible person.

2006-08-26 21:25:23 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

try to make it someone i can google image search....i have to win a bet...

2006-08-26 21:24:44 · 21 answers · asked by De$ErT_FoX 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-08-26 21:24:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she is 6 years younger to me.....

2006-08-26 21:22:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I realize there's no quick and easy way, but I'm wondering if anyone has been able to get over listening to the tapes of their emotional abuser playing in their head all the time. And how do you trust someone else again??

2006-08-26 21:21:56 · 11 answers · asked by nunya 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or do what others tell her

2006-08-26 21:19:43 · 6 answers · asked by lio 1 in Family

2006-08-26 21:18:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If a man loves you..why cant they handle a long distance relationship? My ex was 7 years older and I moved away to college. We stayed together for 6 months but then he said the long distance relatiionship was too hard..he wanted me to go meet new people and have fun. He couldn't let go of me though and kept on calling right after he broke up with me. to this day he still tells me he loves me. I am so confused on how he feels? why did he break up with me if he loves me so much? can some men really just not handle long distance relationships? do you think he is keeping such close contact with me because he sees hope for the future when i am older and out of college? my age was also always a big issue for him..his bro gave him **** b/c i was so much younger. any ideas on what the love of my life is thinking? i love him so much but scared to show emotions because dont want to act

2006-08-26 21:18:37 · 7 answers · asked by Janie 1 in Singles & Dating

im leaving for absic training sept 12 2006, and my wife has been in for about 2 and 1/2 yrs already, i was cool with her leave and didnt really stress the whole time she was gone except for when she had just left. she is really hurting about me leaving even though it is all for a good cause. im going army and she id air force but have 4 yrs left im going in for 6yrs. we have a 3yr old boy, there is no fact that we will be stationed at the same base, but i am dedicated to her, and its hard toknow where i will be but i want her head to be in the right place. we are both 23yrs old. been together since 16, got married at 18 had a baby at 20, and went to the same elemenatry, jr high and high school. i dont know what to do. i am going to take care of my family but try to understand my situation.

serious answers only 10 points for best!

2006-08-26 21:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by CATCH 22 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need some good advice. Please tell about what pressure you went through and what did you learn from it or how did you react. It can be any kind of pressure, maybe at work,school,relationships,religion,sports, or whatever pressures one may face.

2006-08-26 21:16:29 · 11 answers · asked by Dgirl112 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-26 21:15:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

should I go home and take care of my ailing parents? or should I satay here and make $?

2006-08-26 21:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by nanedwards69 2 in Family

He and I have been talking about taking a long weekend together. We have set a date and have decided on a destination. It is within driving distance so I'm not concerned about getting stuck with airfare I won't use. I'm wondering if I should be planning something so far in advance this early in a relationship? It will be for a month from now.

2006-08-26 21:14:10 · 12 answers · asked by cocoanutt 4 in Singles & Dating

I honestly don't think that these kids who are between the ages of 11 and 16 (or somewhere in that vicinity) should be posting things about relationships and say that they're in "love." Personally, I don't think these kids are old enough to understand or be in love, much less be mature enough to handle it. If there's anyone who can justify an argument against me, feel free to respond, because this is way beyond me.

2006-08-26 21:13:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im in love with a married man we been talking for about a year he doesent get along with his wife and they never spend time together she has caught us sending text to each other but he still talks to me i ask him all the time why dont he leave her and its the same thing he says he has been married to her for 20 years and thats all he knows but why does he keep talking to me and he knows i love him

2006-08-26 21:11:59 · 31 answers · asked by Manda 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-08-26 21:11:45 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

"I just got out yesterday"

2006-08-26 21:09:33 · 33 answers · asked by High? 6 in Singles & Dating

My elementary school friends really can't get along with one of them from middle school. The middle school friend also went to my elementary school for a few months at the end of the last year there. Everyone really hated him then. My friends all seemed to get along. Recently I heard one of my pals from elementary talking trash about the other guy. What the hell might be going on?

2006-08-26 21:06:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-08-26 21:06:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce