I realize there's no quick and easy way, but I'm wondering if anyone has been able to get over listening to the tapes of their emotional abuser playing in their head all the time. And how do you trust someone else again??
2006-08-26 21:21:56 · 11 answers · asked by nunya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You take time. You gain back your sense of self, You get help. I couldn't have done it alone, he really messed with my head, but it helps when you research the person who abused you and find out that he was only king in your relationship,the rest of his life is just a lie. Emotional abuse is worse the physical because the pain he inflicts on you isn't visible, there are no scars, just the echoing of his lectures in your head. But take my word for it, you do survive.
2006-08-26 21:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by ladylunamina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Emotional abuse may be verbal, yet verbal is generally emotional. Emotional abuse can comprise an abuser putting the abused in a difficulty to play on their thoughts; alongside with promising to look someplace then intentionally no longer showing up. specific words have been spoken, however the effect grow to be derived from the action. while verbal abuse may be call-calling, yelling, citing of subjects no longer needed etc.
2016-09-30 22:42:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abuser's hate YOU being in the spotlight..
That'll expose them.,,,,,,
and they can't abuse then,,,,,,
so, asking questions here is a start..
They don't like others seeing them abuse.
so, if the abuse was around others then the others approved of or were unaware of the abuse
hm....
how do you trust?
I don't know how YOU trust? I want you to check out answers to this question...
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjjUKFuXukeSSoxb4bTVBUTsy6IX?qid=20060821002943AAAOW07
yes, it is my question,
it is my belief as well.
I was surrounded by abusers
I thought the world was full of abusers and I was different.
I finally found out that I could choose to be around abuser or be around "something else"
so who or what do you choose to be around?
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2006-08-26 21:36:11 · answer #3 · answered by DM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to meet new ppl and start over a new life without the abuser. Get help from other ppl..they're always there for you!
2006-08-26 21:24:44 · answer #4 · answered by Neutro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard but u need to divert your mind. when those thoughts come to your head listen to music concentrate on the lyrics. just block ur mind against all else. kind of meditate on music. it will help. slowly with time you will come out of it. memories maybe there but it will not hurt. n i would also suggest you make new friends. u will do fine in sometime
2006-08-26 21:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by trueblue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it' a matter of survival,,,,here my life's survival kit..
1.Toothpick- to remind you to pick up the good qualities in orders
2.Rubber band-to remind you to be flexible,things not always go the way you want it,but it will work"
3.Band Aid-to remind you heal hurt feelings,yours or someone' else's
4.Pencil-to remind you to list blessings everyday
5.Eraser-to remind you that everyone makes mistakes,
6.Chewing Gum-to remind you to stick with(God,Allah)& you can accomplish everything.
2006-08-26 22:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by sandstormz31 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only a change in life style and time will help.
2006-08-26 21:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ironball 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seek out conseling!
2006-08-26 21:25:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Therapy and the passage of time.
2006-08-26 21:26:16 · answer #9 · answered by Kanga_tush2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is hard to do but you got to move on and trust again it will be hard i know
2006-08-26 21:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by carolea_lamblin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋